Parents' Guide to Best Friends

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Common Sense Media Review

By Abby Aldrich , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 8+

Story of a friend moving is comforting and relatable.

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Why Age 8+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 9+

Based on 2 parent reviews

age 8+

Based on 7 kid reviews

What's the Story?

Gemma and Alice have been best friends since birth. They were born on the same day, in the same
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hospital and have been inseparable ever since. Complete opposites (Gemma is athletic
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and messy, while Alice is graceful and tidy), they have a bond that is unbreakable and every year on
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their birthday they share the same wish: “We wish we stay friends forever and
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ever and ever.” Everything seems ruined when Alice's father gets a new job hundreds of
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miles away and the family has to move. Now Alice and Gemma have to navigate the rough waters
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of adjusting to life without each other.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 2 ):
Kids say ( 7 ):

Kids will relate to the strength of Gemma and Alice's friendship, as
well as the sadness and anger they feel at being separated against their will. They’ll
appreciate the warmth of Gemma’s granddad and the lengths he goes to in order
to help his granddaughter cope. Readers will find the book uplifting as they
see the characters learn how to move on.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about friendship and how people can be
    best friends even when they’re very different. Do you have friends who are
    different from you? How does that work for or against your friendship?

  • Why did Gemma feel that her mother would prefer Alice as a daughter? Why
    do some people expect that a girl should wear dresses and care about makeup
    and hairstyles? What do those expectations say to a girl who doesn’t fit those
    stereotypes?

  • Why do you think Gemma was so mad at Biscuits and why do you
    think Biscuits continued to be a good friend to her in spite of it?

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