Parents' Guide to Consent (for Kids!): Boundaries, Respect, and Being in Charge of YOU

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Carrie Kingsley By Carrie Kingsley , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 5+

Outstandingly clear, humorous talk of consent, boundaries.

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CONSENT (FOR KIDS!): BOUNDARIES, RESPECT, AND BEING IN CHARGE OF YOU uses humor and clear language to describe and model consent, boundary-setting, bodily autonomy, and more. Cartoon illustrations show many examples of actions that are and are not respectful, with clear information about what to do if you feel uncomfortable in a situation, how to respond to others, and what it means to be in control of your own body.

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This exceptional book is full of important information shared in a way that makes sense to readers of all ages, and is a great conversation starter. Consent (for Kids!): Boundaries, Respect, and Being in Charge of YOU is both lighthearted and serious, using humor to show clear examples of how to navigate uncomfortable or uncertain situations. The illustrations are a perfect match for the information, helping readers relate to the important messages on each page. This empowering guide for kids and families belongs on every bookshelf.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the scenarios in Consent (for Kids!): Boundaries, Respect, and Being in Charge of YOU that resonate with them. How have you navigated similar situations?

  • Who are some of your trusted people?

  • Who in your life do you think should read this book so they can understand more about consent?

  • Why is communicating your body boundaries to others so important? Is it hard for you to tell others your body boundaries? Why or why not? If yes, what might help? Who could you practice with or rehearse with?

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