Books to Help Kids and Tweens Understand the Importance of Consent

Last updated: February 19, 2025

We've seen social and institutional changes related to sexual assault, sexual harassment, and consent gain traction in popular culture, across various industries, and on high school and college campuses. But kids and tweens also deserve access to age-appropriate information about important topics like body autonomy, boundaries, and consent. More and more books are being written specifically for kids and tweens that can support educators and caregivers in having these critical conversations. The picture books, practical guides, and middle-grade novels on this list were selected to engage and educate. They'll help kids learn to protect themselves as they grow up, seek help when needed, and inspire them to be a part of creating a safer world for everyone. For more great books to help kids grow up strong, see our lists Growing Up Queer: Thoughtful Books About LGBTQ+ Youth and Shafia Zaloom's Picks: Sex Ed Books for Kids. And for books about consent for older teens, check out Books to Help Teens Understand the Importance of Consent.

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All About Penises book cover: Diverse group of boys and gils stand behind a sign displaying the book title
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All About Penises: A Learning About Bodies Book

age 3+

Kid-friendly guide gives info and relatable context.

All About Vulvas and Vaginas book cover: Group of smiling diverse boys and girls hold a big sign displaying book title
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All About Vulvas and Vaginas: A Learning About Bodies Book

age 3+

Lively, informative guide gives solid info for young kids.

Can I Give You a Squish? book cover: A kid merperson, a dolphin, an octopus, a crab, and a puffer fish in an underwater sea scene
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Can I Give You a Squish?

age 3+

Sweet undersea tale gently models consent for young kids.

Yes! No! A First Conversation About Consent book cover: Kids with different skin tones are shown surrounding a speech bubble with the words "yes! no!"
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Yes! No! A First Conversation About Consent

age 3+

Picture book gives young kids tools for discussing consent.

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Don't Touch My Hair!

age 4+

Girl speaks up, sets boundaries in funny picture book.

From My Head to My Toes book cover: Smiling, athletic girl in blue pants and a pink shirt, jumping across a path in a park
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From My Head to My Toes

age 4+

A powerful tool for teaching kids about consent.

Rissy No Kissies book cover: Green and yellow bird with an orange beak
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Rissy No Kissies

age 4+

Sweet read-aloud story models consent and communication.

Consent (for Kids!) book cover: Smiling stick figure wearing a golden crown and cape
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Consent (for Kids!): Boundaries, Respect, and Being in Charge of YOU

age 5+

Outstandingly clear, humorous talk of consent, boundaries.

Growing Up Powerful book cover: Colorful illustration of three girls with different skin and hair colors, one with a hearing aid, all smiling and dancing
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Growing Up Powerful

age 8+

Invaluable for helping girls become empowered teens.

Maybe He Just Likes You book cover: Silhouette of a girl in a sweatshirt with prints of trumpets, basketballs etc.
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Maybe He Just Likes You

age 9+

Warm, engaging book about harassment has great message.

That's What Friends Do book cover: Illustration of boy and girl in a tunnel with a brightly illuminated from behind
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That's What Friends Do

age 9+

Likable tale of friendship addresses consent, body autonomy.

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Chirp

age 10+

Girl finds voice to call out harassment in triumphant tale.

What Happened to Rachel Riley? book cover: Turquoise background with drawing of teen girl, a key, cow, cell phone, etc.
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What Happened to Rachel Riley?

age 10+

Engaging mystery looks at middle school sexual harassment.

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Fighting Words

age 11+

Powerful, moving story of 10-year-old recovering from abuse.

Greta book cover: A child with short curly hair lies in a fetal position on their side atop large green and gold butterfly wings
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Greta

age 11+

Sweet middle-grade story of change, friendship, and healing.

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How to Be a Girl in the World

age 11+

Engaging coming-of-ager tackles sexual harassment of tween.

Ultraviolet book cover: Profile of boy with dark curly hair against a background of vivid oranges, greens, blues, and pinks
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Ultraviolet

age 11+

Illuminating look at puberty, love through eyes of teen boy.

Welcome to Consent Book Cover: Title written in large text above illustrations of a White hand giving a thumbs up and a brown hand giving a thumbs down
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Welcome to Consent

age 11+

Impressively comprehensive guide covers nuances of consent.

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