Common Sense Media Review
Inspiring, violent memoir recommended for mature teens.
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Why Age 16+?
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What's the Story?
Young Tara Westover's big dream is to be EDUCATED. But her survivalist father no longer believes in public schools. Her herbalist mother tries homeschooling Tara (she's one of seven kids) but soon loses interest. If Tara wants to learn, she'll have to do it on her own. At 10, Tara finds herself put to work in her father's junkyard. It's a dangerous job that will later lead to an accident that leaves Tara with a spike embedded in her leg. That's not the only danger in Tara's life. Her older brother Shawn is physically abusing her, and no one in the family has tried to put a stop to it. But when her brother Tyler makes an unexpected return home from college (the only child who's defied their father and his views about higher education), he steps in and stops Shawn from beating up Tara. Tyler tells her that she has to find a way to leave, that he knows a way she can go to college. So she buys books and begins to study on her own. At 16, she scores well on the ACT and is accepted at Brigham Young University. But should she go, or will God punish her for applying? Go she does, and a whole new world opens up for her. She has roommates who wear shorts and watch movies on Sunday, learns about the Holocaust and the civil rights movement, and has a first boyfriend. A study abroad program takes her to Cambridge University in England where she'll return as a graduate student. There's also an admission from her older sister that Shawn abused her as well, a hope that her parents will finally acknowledge what he's done, a confrontation with Shawn, and a final visit home.
Is It Any Good?
The memoir's strong message about courage and perseverance is sometimes overshadowed by a storyline about abuse and a perpetrator who's left unaccountable. Educated is not for readers expecting a slightly more mature version of an "overcoming all odds" young adult story. It's often dark, and the family dynamics are chilling and confusing. For teens who've been or know someone who's been abused, the story could be a trigger, or it may be inspiring and validating, so take care in handing this moving, troubling book to just any teen.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the violence Tara endured in Educated. What did you learn from Tara's story about how someone could be so courageous and determined and still be caught in a cycle of abuse?
In Tara's world growing up, there were no expectations for girls other than marriage and having a family. Do you think the future for girls in your community is limitless, or limited?
Have you ever found yourself in a place or situation that was totally different from anything you'd experienced before? What happened?
Book Details
- Author :
- Genre : Autobiography
- Character Strengths : Courage , Perseverance
- Book type : Non-Fiction
- Publisher : Random House
- Publication date : December 20, 2018
- Publisher's recommended age(s) : 18 - 18
- Number of pages : 352
- Available on : Paperback, Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, Apple Books, Kindle
- Last updated : August 6, 2025
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