Parents' Guide to Girling Up: How to Be Strong, Smart and Spectacular

Book Mayim Bialik Advice 2017
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age 12+

Lots of knowledge and positivity in girl-power advice book.

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age 10+

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What's the Story?

GIRLING UP: HOW TO BE STRONG, SMART AND SPECTACULAR uses biology and neuroscience to answer questions many tweens and teens have about how their brains, bodies, and emotions change during puberty. Actress and author Mayim Bialik puts her Ph.D. in neuroscience to good use as she explains in detail, with anatomical illustrations, the hows and whys of puberty, from body image, coping with stress, nutrition, and school to hormones, dating, sex, and more.

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Kids say ( 1 ):

Mayim Bialik's enthusiasm and positivity for all things "girl" are infectious as she carefully, thoroughly, and joyously explains the science behind puberty. In this text that's easy to understand but never dumbed-down, tweens and teens will find the answers to what their bodies and minds are going through. They'll also be comforted by knowing they're not alone, they're perfectly normal, and there's a lot to celebrate about Girling Up.

It's a refreshingly inclusive book. Bialik mentions a lot of things that have helped her, like organized religion, but she understands and respects other paths for finding comfort in hard times or peace of mind when things get stressful. The illustrations show a variety of body types and ethnicities, so any girl can easily relate to the explanations, answers, and possibilities she lays out. Bialik has taken topics that seem scary and, by helping young women understand what's going on, turns uncertainty into empowerment.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how knowledge is power in Girling Up. Did you learn anything surprising? How will what you've learned help you as you grow into adulthood?

  • Why do you think a successful actress like Mayim writes books, too? Do you think she's genuinely passionate about "girling up"? What about financial rewards?

  • If you have more questions this book doesn't answer, where else can you look for the information you need?

Book Details

  • Author : Mayim Bialik
  • Genre : Advice
  • Topics : School ( High School , Middle School ) , STEM
  • Book type : Non-Fiction
  • Publisher : Philomel
  • Publication date : May 9, 2017
  • Publisher's recommended age(s) : 12 - 17
  • Number of pages : 192
  • Available on : Nook, Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, Apple Books, Kindle
  • Last updated : September 30, 2025

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