Parents' Guide to My Family Divided: One Girl's Journey of Home, Loss, and Hope

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Nayanika Kapoor By Nayanika Kapoor , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Heartbreaking, inspiring memoir of popular actress.

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age 12+

Based on 4 kid reviews

What's the Story?

MY FAMILY DIVIDED begins with Diane Guerrero as a typical tween girl, spending lots of time with her three best friends, going to school, watching her favorite shows, and hanging out with her family. But underneath there's a constant worry about her parents' documentation status, something that's been a part of her life for as long as she can remember. At 14, her parents and brother are in fact taken away from her and deported back to Colombia. Diane, who was born in the U.S., stays alone in the country with the help of family friends. She must balance becoming an independent adult (far earlier than most) with pursuing an ambitious acting career and trying to succeed in school. This story shows her journey to become the successful actress she is today, despite all the obstacles she had to overcome.

Is It Any Good?

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Kids say ( 4 ):

This well-written memoir tells an incredible story of persistence, courage, and triumph. In her personable and friendly voice, actress/author Diane Guerrero recounts her personal experiences of what many people in the U.S. have to face every single day. While the topics tackled in My Family Divided are difficult and complex, Guerrero uses simple language and an approachable tone to help readers understand her struggle. Her journey is truly inspirational, and every part of the book is educational and enlightening, though much of it can also be heartbreaking. She doesn't sugarcoat any of it but reflects on her experiences thoughtfully and explains her actions at different points in the book.

My Family Divided is a natural fit for kids interested in politics, immigration, the news, and current events. It's a moving and inspiring story for readers mature enough to handle it.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how My Family Divided portrays immigration and highlights the need for reform in the United States' system. Why do people on both political sides feel the way they do about immigration?

  • How does Diane balance her responsibilities with her desire to pursue her acting dreams? Do you think it's harder for the children of immigrants to succeed?

  • Have you struggled with mental health issues and the kind of disturbing thoughts the author discusses in My Family Divided? What are some coping mechanisms you use to get through difficult situations? Who can you turn to for help?

  • Why do you think representation in media is so important? Do you feel like your identity has been represented enough on television and in movies?

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