Parents' Guide to

Perfect

By Pam Gelman, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 13+

Poignant read perfect for mom-teen girl book club.

Book Natasha Friend Coming of Age 2004
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age 12+

Based on 3 parent reviews

nicolerf14
nicolerf14 Adult
May 11, 2014
age 12+

Entertaining and Emotional Story for Some; Bulimia How-To for Others

Proceed with caution. Tweens and teens may be able to relate to Isabelle's feelings about her father, the family dynamic, or Isabelle's tumultuous friendship with Ashley. However, the descriptions of binging and purging are graphic and could be used as a "how-to" for some. I would recommend viewing the documentary "Someday Melissa" along with this book and discussing the effects of bulimia.
sexyhotchic
sexyhotchic Adult
February 23, 2009
age 10+

Hot Book

This book is the best that i have read in my 11 years of living!!!!!!!!!! I am serious
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What's the Story?

Ape-Face, otherwise known as April, or Isabelle Lee's 10-year-old sister, catches Isabelle in the midst of making herself throw up. She tells her mother, who then enrolls Isabelle in group therapy for eating disorders. Isabelle's thoughts are always on the death of her father and her frustrations with her mother's insistence on keeping these painful thoughts on the inside. In therapy, Isabelle is surprised to be joined by Ashley, the most popular girl at school -- of course everyone thinks she has it all. They bond over their bingeing/purging and start socializing together outside of group therapy. Ashley invites Isabelle to sit with her at the "popular" table at lunch.

Though silent in group therapy, Isabelle takes to journal writing and begins meeting with Trish, the counselor, individually. Trish helps Isabelle open up and talk about her sadness and the problems at home. From there she looks for ways to connect to her sister and help her mother.

Is It Any Good?

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In PERFECT, Natasha Friend has created a character who will make readers cry and cheer as she struggles and then slowly faces her problems. These problems reflect her mother's inability to accept the father's death, her sister's desperate need to talk about him, a new relationship with the most popular girl at school, and most of all, her own sadness she's repressing in damaging ways. Readers may not have the same problems as Isabelle, but watching her ability to face them and move on will be inspiring.

With its realistic dialogue, difficult moments of self-discovery, and harsh critique of relationships, Perfect is a very quick yet unforgettable read. The graphic nature of this book may make it hard for some young teens to read alone. However, it's an excellent choice for a mother-teen daughter book club.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the effects of bulimia and laxatives on the body.

  • How does it damage your teeth and digestive system?

  • What are other
    harmful long-term effects?

  • Parents can also talk about Isabelle's
    distorted image of her body. How do you think mourning for her father
    contributed to Isabelle's eating disorder? How did the rest of the
    family mourn?

  • What kind of support does this family need to move
    forward? What should you do if you or someone you know shows signs of
    an eating disorder?

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