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Silent to the Bone

Book review by
Matt Berman, Common Sense Media
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Absorbing mystery includes child abuse, sexual manipulation.
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Parents say

age 12+
Based on 10 reviews

Kids say

age 11+
Based on 23 reviews

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this book.

Educational Value

Parents and teachers can use this book to discuss topics ranging from the mystery to silent communication. Scholastic has a lesson plan that's worth checking out.

Positive Messages

All the hallmarks of a classic mystery story surrounding an infant in a coma. Ultimately justice -- and friendship! -- prevail.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Connor is a loyal friend, determined to discover the truth.


An infant is abused and injured. Bran is left out of his father's new life, then is falsely accused of harming his infant half-sister.


Bran has a crush on the adult au pair, who tricks him into helping her with her bath. When he gets an erection, she scolds him, and he begins doing "whatever she wanted me to do" to keep her silence -- including baby care, or not telling about finding her with her boyfriend in her room. Connor also is quite taken with Vivian.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Vivian, adult au pair, smokes cigarettes. Adults drink wine.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this book includes all the hallmarks of a classic mystery story surrounding an infant in a coma. Connor is a loyal friend, determined to discover the truth, and ultimately justice -- and friendship! -- prevail. But mature details make this a better choice for tweens and up: the plot deals with a baby being shaken and injured, and there's an undercurrent of sexual tension in the book between two 13-year-old boys and an adult au pair.  

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written bykingslyle December 16, 2008

Not for 6th Graders!

Each year I encourage my children to read books from the school's suggested reading list. I often read the books before my children do so that I can discu... Continue reading
Adult Written byhoopstoad April 9, 2008

Tread carefully

My 12 year old was upset by the distrubing sexual content that is revealed in the last pages. I should have been more wary about the age range given on the boo... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written byBookHelperForYou April 9, 2008
Teen, 15 years old Written bySiennaroar1 April 10, 2011

It's a great book for tweens and teans.

I love this book. I had to read it for a book project for school and I thought it was great. I was very interested in it and I could not stop reading it. I thi... Continue reading

What's the story?

Here are the facts: Branwell Zamborska's baby half-sister, Nikki, has had a head injury and is in a coma. No one knows whether she will survive. Vivian, the Zamborska's British au pair, has given a deposition that Bran, after showing an unhealthy interest in changing Nikki's diapers, dropped her. Bran has lapsed into silence, unable to speak, and has been placed in an institution while prosecutors ready a case against him. Only his best friend, Connor, believes in him. Connor visits Bran every day and develops a way to communicate with him using flash cards. But instead of telling Connor what happened, Bran uses the cards to send him on a series of errands designed to help him piece together the whole story.

Is it any good?

The engrossing nature of this story can't be denied. It follows the formula of a classic mystery, with red herrings, a climactic revelation, and detective Connor putting the pieces together. Readers will admire Connor's dedication to his friend, and be glad when justice -- and friendship -- prevail.

Unfortunately, none of the key elements -- the characters, the emotions, the psychology -- ring true. E. L. Konigsburg's child characters have always been precociously gifted, but in recent novels, such as The View From Saturday, she has strayed perilously close to making them indistinguishable from very clever adults, and here she goes over the line. Neither Connor (who tells the story) nor Bran are credible young teens; they don't talk -- or, more importantly, think -- like kids at all. And the adults in the story, save Margaret, are just detestable. Readers may also not be convinced by the connection between the nanny's sexual manipulation of Bran and his silence (and be troubled that it is never really called abuse). Though the identity of the culprit will surprise no one, readers might be unsatisfied by the punishment given to the person who actually abused Nikki.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about mature material in books for kids and teens. This book features both a badly injured baby and an au pair, who is inappropriately sexual toward a young teen. What age is the book best for?  Did the material here surprise you?

  • Have you read other E.L Konigsburg books? Do you see any similarities between this book and her other works, like From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler? How are her protagonists similar?

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