Parents' Guide to The Obsession

The Obsession book cover: Illustration of the front of a large house; it’s night and the only lights on in the house are from two upstairs windows

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Lucinda Dyer By Lucinda Dyer , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 12+

Uneven thriller with thought provoking social media twist.

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What's the Story?

THE OBSESSION begins with a camera ready to "capture the next round of staged authenticity." Over a year ago, Connie's mother started a vlog, "LouPlusTwo," featuring Connie and her older sister, Isla, and has become obsessed with making it a success. That success has moved the family into a huge five bedroom house in a gated community, but Connie thinks it's taken over their lives and not in a good way. It was fun at first, but now she feels like it's "being in prison." When her mother takes Isla on a vlog college tour for two weeks, she tells their followers that Connie will be staying home alone. Her mother's shared lots of videos (the town's name, even street signs) on the vlog, so Connie knows it wouldn't be difficult for one of their "creepy" fans to find her. But if she does begin to feel afraid, Connie's certain she'll be able to turn to her best friends Rosa and Dustin and her boyfriend, Seth for help. And she'll need it, as Connie's stalked by a mysterious figure dressed in black, finds flowers first on the doorstep and then on her bed, and is being followed by a gray truck. When she pleads with her mother to come home, she's told to stop being so selfish. It's not just the stalker she has to worry about, it's the murder of two girls who look a lot like her and an attack on Rosa. Connie becomes certain the stalker/murderer/attacker must be someone she knows.


Is It Any Good?

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After a page turning start, the story loses its way in a tangle of storylines and characters before a baffling cliff hanger ending. The Obsession offers a lot for readers to take away and discuss with friends and family about their interactions online and the authenticity of the people they follow. The story also gives teens a chance to think about the changing nature of friendship. Any teen who's ever found themselves growing apart from a good friend or had a friend distance themselves for reasons they don't understand will find much to relate to here.


Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how vlogging was portrayed in The Obsession. What rights should kids have if they don't want to appear in a "family" vlog?


  • Do you follow a vlog by or including teens? What drew you to it and what keeps you watching?


  • How do you decide if you're going to interact on social media with someone you don't know?


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