Parents' Guide to Watch Over Me

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Andrea Beach By Andrea Beach , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Eerie, compelling ghost story about trauma and healing.

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What's the Story?

WATCH OVER ME is the story of 18-year-old Mila, who's finished high school and officially aged out of the foster care system. She gets a teaching internship on a farm in remote Northern California, which is also a foster home to kids of all ages, hoping that some quiet time in the country will help her figure things out. Even when she learns that the farm is haunted by ghosts, Mila is determined that this internship is the best thing for her now. Soon she starts finding little gifts on her doorstep that directly relate to her past abuser, who's dead now. Haunted and terrified by the memories that are coming back to the surface, Mila will have to confront her past if to be able to choose her own future.

Is It Any Good?

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Author Nina LaCour's strong, sometimes lyrical writing lifts this story of trauma, grief, and recovery well beyond the average ghost story. Watch Over Me is haunting and compelling, dripping with eerie atmosphere and pervasive fear and dread. But LaCour strikes a wonderful balance between nightmare and daylight by taking readers on Mila's journey to understanding and forgiving her past; learning how to give and receive love; and the beauty and peace that come from being able to make your own choices in life.

Teens will relate to Mila's fear that she might not be a good person and her need to find a place where there are people she loves and who love her, too. Themes of parental loss and abandonment as well as past abuse make it best for high-schoolers and up.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Watch Over Me shows other characters supporting Mila as she grieves and recovers from her experiences. Does it ring true? If you've suffered trauma or loss, or if you know someone who has, what kinds of things would be the most helpful? What kinds of things don't really help at all?

  • Why do we enjoy eerie ghost stories so much? Do you have different reactions to reading, watching, or hearing them? Why, or why not?

  • Does Mila's experience of foster care seem realistic? What are some issues people in foster care face as they become legally adult?

Book Details

  • Author : Nina LaCour
  • Genre : Contemporary Fiction
  • Topics : Friendship , Fantasy
  • Book type : Fiction
  • Publisher : Dutton Books
  • Publication date : September 15, 2020
  • Publisher's recommended age(s) : 14 - 17
  • Number of pages : 272
  • Available on : Nook, Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, Apple Books, Kindle
  • Last updated : September 29, 2025

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