Parents' Guide to 40 Dates and 40 Nights

Movie 2026 NR 101 minutes
40 Dates and 40 Nights movie poster: Colorful silhouette background with a 20-something two people facing each other, smiling

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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Cute, if uneven, romcom has drinking, some language.

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What's the Story?

In 40 DATES AND 40 NIGHTS, Leah (Bailee Madison) is dumped after a guy admits that the condom they used broke and rates her a "solid six out of 10." After Leah laments the breakup, the unexpected departure of her roommate, and the general lack of decent guys to her widowed grandmother, Gigi (Annie Potts), the two strike a bet: If Leah can go on 40 sex-free dates with 40 different people and find love, Gigi will pay her rent for a year and then some. With support from her best friend and co-worker Bianca (Luxy Banner), Leah meets each date at the same Italian restaurant, where manager Steven (Jai Rodriguez) becomes an amused observer of her dating adventures. One of the dates, Mason (Joel Courtney), turns out to be a man whom Leah memorably spotted in the family-planning aisle of a local pharmacy, but their first date ends badly. As they continue to cross paths, the two gradually become close friends—but Leah is reluctant to jeopardize her challenge by pursuing something more.

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A familiar conceit with likable characters leads to a frothy but predictable romcom. Unlike 2002's 40 Days and 40 Nights, in which the challenge had a biblical connection to Lent and involved a womanizer (Josh Hartnett) learning to prioritize intimacy over sex, the contest in 40 Dates and 40 Nights is about pushing Leah out of her comfort zone to prove that love really exists. Potts is ideally cast as an eccentric, wealthy grandmother who serves as her granddaughter's trusted confidante, and Madison is believable as a somewhat aimless Gen Zer who hasn't yet found her "thing," either professionally or personally. Courtney and Madison have appealing chemistry, although the screenplay keeps him in the friend zone much longer than expected.

There's nothing extraordinary about the movie, but it's always refreshing to see a romcom that passes the Bechdel Test, even if only narrowly (in this case, through conversations about work, Gigi, and movies). The subplot in which Leah pursues career opportunities is also commendable, especially because it highlights the many ways that Mason proves to be a supportive, encouraging prospective partner. Some of the movie's funniest moments belong to Rodriguez and Madison, because Steven isn't one to bite his tongue when he thinks one of Leah's dates is either a catch or a dud. While 40 Dates and 40 Nights is the kind of movie that feels better suited to streaming than seeing on the big screen, Madison is charming enough to make it worth watching.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the popularity of dating contests and challenges in movies. How does 40 Dates and 40 Nights compare to other similar movies? Have you ever heard of something similar in real life?

  • What did Leah learn about herself by going on 40 dates? How did the challenge help her understand what she wanted in a romantic partner?

  • Discuss the way intergenerational family relationships are depicted here. How often do you see grandparent and adult grandchild characters interact in a movie?

  • How does the movie portray drinking during dates? Does it glamorize drinking, or show any downsides and consequences?

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