Parents' Guide to A Christmas Story

Movie PG 1983 98 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 8+

Wonderful antidote to cutesy holiday tales; some swearing.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 8+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 10+

Based on 57 parent reviews

Parents say this holiday film is a nostalgic classic but often argue it isn't suitable for younger audiences due to its strong language, themes of violence, and dark humor. While some appreciate it as a humorous reflection on childhood experiences, many feel it promotes negative role models and includes racial stereotypes that may not resonate well with young viewers today.

  • not for kids
  • language concerns
  • violent scenes
  • racial stereotypes
  • adult humor
  • mixed reviews
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age 9+

Based on 83 kid reviews

Kids say that this holiday film, while a classic and beloved family favorite, contains a significant amount of swearing, violence, and suggestive material that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Many viewers appreciate its humor and nostalgic value, but caution others about its mature themes, advising that it is better suited for older kids or after parental screening.

  • classic appeal
  • swearing content
  • violence present
  • parental discretion
  • humor appreciated
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What's the Story?

A CHRISTMAS STORY is about Ralphie (Peter Billingsley), a 9-year-old boy in 1940s Indiana whose entire life is consumed with his one wish: to get a Red Ryder BB gun for Christmas. He also has to deal with a seemingly endless wait for his Little Orphan Annie decoder ring, a boy who's bullying him, and an overworked department-store Santa. His father (Darren McGavin) seems preoccupied with the neighbors' dogs (he hates them), a huge lamp in the shape of a woman's fishnet-stocking-clad leg that he won, the family's furnace, and the Christmas turkey. His mother seems preoccupied with getting his brother to eat and getting the leg lamp out of the house, but both parents manage to come through for a chaotic but very merry Christmas.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 57 ):
Kids say ( 83 ):

Part of the appeal of this movie, based on the memoirs of humorist Jean Shepard (who narrates), is the authenticity of the period detail. Much of Ralphie's world may seem bizarre to kids today, especially if they're from different racial/ethnic, religious, or economic backgrounds, but Shepard's feel for the timeless details of childhood emotions and growing pains is genuinely engaging. Today's kids may not have Ralphie's exquisitely calibrated system of dares and double-dog dares, but they will have some equivalent that's just as thoroughly understood and immutable in their own community. And many will have to deal with bullying, an annoying sibling, an assignment to dream of impressing the teacher with, the adult world to try to figure out, and, most of all, some magic dream of the ultimate gift to hope for beyond all reason.

A Christmas Story is a nice antidote to all those Christmas movies with perfectly harmonized carols and perfectly wrapped gifts. Because people tend to get so obsessive about every single detail at Christmas, the last scene of this movie, when the family's Christmas dinner is exactly the opposite of what they had planned, is especially sweet (other than the racist portrayal of Asian people, that is). Their reaction, seeing it not as a disappointment but as a delightful activity to enjoy remembering in future Christmases, is a lesson for all families.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about bullying in A Christmas Story: What makes people bully others? What makes people befriend people who bully?

  • Why is it hard for Ralphie to talk to his parents about what he wants for Christmas?

  • Why is Ralphie so disappointed by the decoder? Do products get advertised during your favorite shows? Does it sometimes catch you by surprise like it did Ralphie?

  • How do the characters in A Christmas Story demonstrate self-control? Why is this an important character strength?

  • Did you notice any racial or gender stereotypes in the movie? Why do you think things that were once considered socially acceptable (or funny) can later turn into things that feel awkward or wrong?

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