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Father-son comedy with Italian roots has smoking, language.
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About My Father
What's the Story?
In ABOUT MY FATHER, Sebastian Maniscalco (playing a version of himself) sees the opportunity to propose to his girlfriend, Ellie Collins (Leslie Bibb), during her wealthy family's annual Fourth of July celebration in Virginia. Sebastian reluctantly brings his dad, Salvo (Robert De Niro), with him on the trip. He ends up spending all of his time navigating the culture clash between he Collins family, who've always had it all, and Salvo, who believes in hard work and scrimping to get by.
Is It Any Good?
This comedy will definitely connect more with adults than kids, but being embarrassed by your parents is familiar territory for teens, so they'll relate at least a bit. In other words, for teens and tweens, the idea of watching About My Father may like being taken to an Italian restaurant and being served the Branzino -- OK, sure, your dad likes it, but you'd rather have the spaghetti. But, like the flaky fish, if you give it a chance, it's pretty enjoyable, no matter your age. Beyond that, it's funny. The movie's laughs start out slow, but once the characters arrive in Virginia, the humor picks up, with comedic situations you won't see coming. The comparison between the Collinses, who are kind and generous but have over-coddled their children, and Salvo, whose approach to raising Sebastian was tougher and less warm but resulted in developing his independence and strong character, is thought-provoking. And the movie ends on a heartwarming note that essentially gives everyone in the audience, especially men, permission to let the tears flow.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how About My Father's director, writer, and stars are Italian American, telling an Italian American story. How does lived experience contribute to authentic storytelling?
How do your family's values and communication style compare to those of other families from different backgrounds? How are they similar? Different?
Is cigar smoking glamorized in About My Father? What about drinking? A wealthy family drinks champagne on a yacht, and wine is recognized as a beverage served with Italian dinners. Does this reinforce any stereotypes about alcohol consumption?
What is a "fish out of water" plot? How is Salvo in that situation?
Movie Details
- In theaters : May 26, 2023
- On DVD or streaming : June 16, 2023
- Cast : Sebastian Maniscalco , Robert De Niro , Leslie Bibb
- Director : Laura Terruso
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Lionsgate
- Genre : Comedy
- Topics : Family Stories ( Siblings )
- Run time : 89 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : suggestive material, language and partial nudity
- Last updated : September 18, 2025
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