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After

Movie review by
Jennifer Green, Common Sense Media
After Movie Poster Image
Predictable college-set adaptation has partying, sex.
  • PG-13
  • 2019
  • 106 minutes
Popular with kids

Parents say

age 15+
Based on 30 reviews

Kids say

age 13+
Based on 22 reviews

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Peers, including friends and romantic partners, can be cruel to one another, but deeper relationships are shown to last. Teens can learn that being mean doesn't feel good. College is portrayed as a time of experimentation, self-discovery. Peer pressure -- to party, play drinking games, break rules, skip class, get a tattoo, etc. -- is seen as inevitable but surmountable. Characters show it's cool -- even attractive -- to read books.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Tessa stands up for herself in social situations, doesn't shy away from intellectual arguments in class. She insists that her mother trust her to make good decisions when she moves away to college. Families are mostly flawed or broken, forcing young adults to face lingering childhood scars, unrealistic parental expectations. Characters give each other second chances after they make hurtful mistakes. Tessa's female friends prove untrustworthy. Hardin, others drink to escape problems.

Violence
Sex

Tessa and Hardin are shown in progressively more intimate scenes: light to heavy kissing and touching, swimming/bathing together, implied oral sex, Tessa's first time having sex. Hardin confirms Tessa is sure before opening condom; focus is on Tessa's face. Two characters kiss, undress each other in bed, with Tessa awake in same dorm room. No characters shown in less than underwear. All sexual scenes are consensual.

Language

A use of "s--t," plus "hell," "damn." Mouthed but unspoken use of "f--k."

Consumerism

One mention of The Gap.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

College-age characters drink beer and hard liquor, sometimes to point of getting drunk; they also smoke, vape. "Weed" is mentioned. Tessa is offered, even pressured to drink and smoke at parties. Tessa's roommate seems to party most weeknights; she hangs out with a rougher crowd. Hardin gets drunk, leaves trail of broken glass in his home when he feels jealous.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that After -- a college-set romance based on Anna Todd's best-selling novel -- deals frankly with sex. Despite a lack of actual nudity, several scenes feel very sexually explicit and include kissing, intimate touching, implied oral sex, and the loss of virginity. But the main characters (played by Josephine Langford and Hero Fiennes Tiffin) don't rush into sex despite their intense attraction, and all scenes are consensual. There's both same-sex and opposite-sex kissing. Parents are portrayed as struggling to overcome flaws themselves, including alcoholism and broken marriages. Partying, with alcohol and drugs, is depicted as a fact of college life. Infrequent swearing includes a use of "s--t." Teens may pick up positive messages about love and friendship, but they could also walk away with superficial notions of romance and college life.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byRonak Kotecha April 11, 2019

LOVE & LUST IN EQUAL MEASURE!

After is the kind of film that could have gone horribly wrong. Well, it had all the ingredients - good girl, bad girls, brooding mysterious college hottie, wann... Continue reading
Adult Written bycinephilee April 13, 2019

Here We Go Again

This movie is your typical good girl meets bad boy romance, so as for plot twists, can't say there were many. The acting was average at best, but it wasn... Continue reading
Teen, 16 years old Written bylingard23 April 12, 2019
Teen, 16 years old Written byMoviereviewer2002 April 14, 2019

Not on point but good

For people who read the book the movie was not exactly on point but I can say they will not be disappointed, The base of the story and the Hessa feel was very r... Continue reading

What's the story?

AFTER begins on the day that Tessa Young (Josephine Langford) is leaving home for college. Her mother, Carol (Selma Blair), is struggling to let go, especially when she meets her daughter's partying dorm roommate, but she's reassured because Tessa has always been responsible and hardworking. Tessa has also had the same boyfriend since she was a kid -- but that changes when she meets handsome, British-accented, poetry-reciting rebel Hardin Scott (Hero Fiennes Tiffin). The pair are set up in a Truth or Dare challenge at a raucous college party where the straitlaced Tessa feels woefully out of place. They bond, and then spar over their readings of classic novels. The more Tessa falls for Hardin and starts letting go of her rules and exploring her own desire, the more her structured world begins falling apart.

Is it any good?

Despite a predictable storyline and clichéd romance, After works, thanks in large part to the heartfelt performance of its young star, Josephine Langford. As Tessa, Langford appears in almost every scene, and with the camera regularly close in on her face, she conveys a sincere mix of self-restraint and hunger for new experiences, confidence and fragility. She's a credible college first-year student, and we believe her and feel for her as a young woman falling in love for the first time. What comes off as less authentic is the story's Pride and Prejudice-inspired romance, based on the cult One Direction fan fiction published by author Anna Todd on the site Wattpad and later as a book series.

The tale requires that Hardin appear to be both Tessa's opposite -- brooding, experienced, and rebellious, despite his father's top university post and wealth -- and also her equally vulnerable soulmate. Tiffin has the budding charisma and looks (he is a Fiennes, after all) to play the romantic lead, but his character here is contrived mostly as a device for Tessa's evolution. After is likely to attract a heavily female audience, but it could struggle to find its market. More mature viewers might find it too formulaic, while parents may keep younger teens away because of the explicit content.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about whether After offers a realistic portrayal of college life, and what high schoolers can expect when they go to college themselves. What are you looking forward to? What makes you nervous? How do you think this compares to other movies about college?

  • For those who've read Todd's book, what did the film change about the characters, story, and setting? What's your opinion about those changes?

  • How did you feel when you found out Tessa's friends had deceived her? Have you ever experienced or done something similar? What were the consequences?

  • Tessa faces a lot of peer pressure. What are some strategies she uses to avoid doing things she doesn't feel comfortable with? How do you handle peer pressure?

  • How does the movie depict sex? Is it different from how you've seen it portrayed in other movies? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.

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