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After Everything
By Sandie Angulo Chen,
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Realistic, touching romance has sex, substances, swearing.

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What's the Story?
AFTER EVERYTHING is an unconventional love story about two New York City millennials. Twenty-three-year-old Elliot (Jeremy Allen White), who works at a Lower East Side sandwich shop, starts dating slightly introverted customer Mia (Maika Monroe), also 23, on the very same day he finds out that what he thought was an STD is actually a rare cancer called Ewing's sarcoma. Elliot tells Mia his news even before his best friend/roommate, Nico (DeRon Horton), or his parents back home in suburban New Jersey. At first the couple takes things slowly, exchanging texts and meeting for meals and conversation, but their love develops even as Elliot's cancer grows -- and they end up skipping straight to promises of forever in a short but intense time. But the young lovers eventually realize that their crisis-fueled romance is harder to maintain in regular, non-emergency times.
Is It Any Good?
The two charming leads shine in this ultra-realistic romance about young lovers whose connection grows during a time of unthinkable crisis. Written and directed by Hannah Marks and Joey Power, After Everything is much more than a stereotypical love story about a doomed patient and a selfless, caregiving lover. It's an exploration of the post-Girls generation of 20-somethings who work wherever (sandwich shops, hipster toothpaste companies) for a paycheck, then go home to get high, binge-watch with friends, and swipe left or right for their dating lives. Elliot and Mia offer typical but not stereotypical representations of being young, broke, and single in the city. White and Monroe are excellent at playing their flawed but appealing characters, and the couple's love connection is sweetly rooted in conversations, not just an instant-attraction-based hookup.
There's no The Fault in Our Stars twist here, but there's heartbreak just the same. The script makes it clear that relationships born out of intense, extraordinary situations can be difficult to sustain once the practicalities of domestic life set in, especially for people who are very different from each other. Pre-diagnosis, Elliot was something of a player -- spending his free time enjoying pick-up basketball games, playing video games with Nico, and having alcohol-fueled one-night stands with at least a dozen partners in the year leading up to discovering his tumor. Mia, meanwhile, is a straighter-laced introvert who passes on her stoner roommates' invitations to smoke up and watch true-crime documentaries. The duo's opposites-attract chemistry is palpable and poignant, so when things stop being swoon-worthy, the movie becomes awfully bittersweet.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about After Everything's messages. Do you think it portrays millennial urban life realistically? Why or why not?
Discuss the way that hookup culture, online dating, and sex are portrayed in the movie. What does Mia mean when she accuses Elliot of not knowing how to talk to women in real life because of Tinder?
Who, if anyone, is a role model in the movie? What character strengths do they display?
How does the movie portray drinking and drug use? Are they glamorized? Are there realistic consequences? Why does that matter?
Movie Details
- In theaters: October 12, 2018
- On DVD or streaming: January 4, 2019
- Cast: Maika Monroe , Jeremy Allen White , Marisa Tomei
- Directors: Hannah Marks , Joey Power
- Inclusion Information: Female actors
- Studio: Good Deed Entertainment
- Genre: Drama
- Run time: 95 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: June 1, 2023
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