
C'mon C'mon
By Jeffrey Anderson,
Common Sense Media Reviewer
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Beautiful drama about kids in an adult world; language.

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What's the Story?
In C'MON C'MON, radio journalist Johnny (Joaquin Phoenix) is working on a project that involves interviewing children about life, the future, etc. He volunteers to look after his 9-year-old nephew, Jesse (Woody Norman), when his sister, Viv (Gaby Hoffmann), has to travel to the West Coast to help her bipolar ex-husband (Scoot McNairy). Viv's trip takes longer than expected, and Johnny ends up taking Jesse on the road with him to do his interviews. Their time spent together deepens their relationship and expands their views on life, with Jesse learning to listen to sounds through Johnny's microphone. Johnny also re-bonds with his sister, with whom he had a falling out after their mother's death. Johnny learns that kids can be amazing and frustrating and that mistakes will be made, and that that's OK.
Is It Any Good?
It may not sound like much, but Mike Mills' drama is a rare mix of touching emotional transparency and a thoughtful, intuitive, essay-like structure as it examines how kids fit into the world. Certainly there's a formulaic aspect to the bare-bones plot -- a grumpy single man goes on a road trip with a cheeky, precocious kid (with moptop hair), both of them emerging as better people -- but C'mon C'mon isn't formulaic in the slightest. Shot in dreamy black-and-white, the movie takes its time. There's no destination here, only the journey. Johnny (Phoenix gives his tenderest, most open-hearted performance since Her) coaxes moving answers from the children he interviews, but how to apply that information to life? And how to use it to understand his relationship with Jesse?
In an early scene, Jesse talks about "fungus tubes" that connect everything in nature, and that's a decent metaphor for the movie. There's nothing to do but go moment by moment, as Jesse asks pointed questions, throws tantrums, runs off, plays lovingly, cuddles, and imagines. Johnny recaps and analyzes things in lovely phone calls to his sister, and then each little "chapter" is capped with a reading from some kind of nonfiction essay. (Johnny's personal journals also provide breaks.) The excellent performances -- including those by Norman and Hoffman -- and Mills' fearless devotion to honesty give C'mon C'mon a life pulse. Indeed, the movie is so much like tangled, beautiful memories that it may be difficult to recall the movie in order.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how C'mon C'mon depicts stress and anger. How do these scenes make you feel? Are these feelings similar in any way to watching violence on-screen?
If the movie didn't have swearing, do you think it would be a good pick for younger children? Why, or why not?
If honesty is one of the movie's main themes, then why do the characters forget every so often? Why is it so hard to be honest sometimes? What role does honesty play in constructive communication?
Many of the things the children say into Johnny's tape recorder are quite profound. How can adults better listen to children?
Movie Details
- In theaters: November 19, 2021
- On DVD or streaming: December 13, 2021
- Cast: Joaquin Phoenix , Gabby Hoffmann , Woody Norman
- Director: Mike Mills
- Studio: A24
- Genre: Drama
- Character Strengths: Communication
- Run time: 108 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: language
- Award: Common Sense Selection
- Last updated: September 10, 2023
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