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By Stefan Pape
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Sweet but crude coming-of-age comedy ponders teen sexuality.
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Dating Amber
What's the Story?
DATING AMBER tells the story of Eddie (Fionn O'Shea) and Amber (Lola Petticrew), teenage outsiders at school who are bullied by their peers because they think both are gay. So the two hatch a plan: If they pretend to be in a straight relationship, maybe their classmates will leave them alone. But how long can this secret last?
Is It Any Good?
This is a sweet, moving tale, full of the distinctive charm and wit that so often illuminates Irish cinema. Dating Amber's premise is comparable to that of Easy A, and the tone to that of Sex Education, so it doesn't feel especially unique, but it's executed in an accomplished manner. Tonally a triumph, it blends the heart with the comedy in a satisfying way.
Though Dating Amber follows a familiar beat, it remains endearing rather than tedious or repetitive. The two lead performances are simply brilliant, with newcomer Petticrew in particular stealing the show. The sincere, sympathetic character of Eddie is also a real testament to O'Shea, whose previous work includes another Irish hit, Normal People.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the portrayal of sexuality in Dating Amber. Why do Eddie and Amber feel that they need to pretend to be something they're not? How did the homophobic slurs in the movie make you feel? Discuss homophobia and what can be done to counter it.
Discuss the strong language used in the movie. Does it seem necessary or excessive? What does it contribute to the movie?
The characters discuss sex openly in front of their parents. Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships. Why is it important to have an open dialogue?
How are drinking and drug use portrayed? Are there consequences? Why is that important?
Eddie and Amber have a teacher they respect. Do you have a teacher or mentor who you look up to? If so, what makes them admirable?
Movie Details
- In theaters : November 10, 2020
- On DVD or streaming : December 29, 2020
- Cast : Fionn O'Shea , Lola Petticrew , Sharon Horgan
- Director : David Freyne
- Studio : Prime Video
- Genre : Comedy
- Topics : Friendship , School ( High School )
- Character Strengths : Courage , Teamwork
- Run time : 92 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- Last updated : August 21, 2026
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