Parents' Guide to Dude

Movie NR 2018 97 minutes
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Brian Costello By Brian Costello , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

Coming-of-age dramedy: teens drink, take drugs, have sex.

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age 18+

Based on 2 parent reviews

age 15+

Based on 6 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In DUDE, when not getting high on weed, going to parties, and asking the question, "Where the d--k at?" four teen best friends -- Lily (Lucy Hale), Chloe (Kathryn Prescott), Amelia (Alexandra Shipp), and Rebecca (Awkwafina) -- are counting down the days left until they can graduate from their blissed-out Los Angeles alternative high school while also dreading what the future holds for them and their friendships. The year before, Chloe's brother, Thomas, (who was also Lily's boyfriend) died in a car accident, and even during the best of times, his tragic passing hangs over all of them as they struggle to make sense of all the impending change staring them in the face. As Lily tries to focus on having as much fun as possible with her friends, she also struggles with the idea of losing Chloe when Chloe decides to stay closer to home for college rather than following Lily to college life in New York City. But through the good times and bad, through crushes and hookups with younger and older boys and men, these four must find a way to maintain their close friendships beyond high school.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 2 ):
Kids say ( 6 ):

This is an ambitious coming-of-age dramedy, despite being marketed as more of a "stoner comedy." While there are moments that could make it a stoner comedy, that's actually not the dominant aspect to the movie. It's what makes Dude so ambitious but also confusing. Sometimes it's a movie where four teen girls living in LA sit around swimming pools getting high or being hung over while saying things like, "Ugh. F--k. I want froyo," and accidentally getting the family dog baked on weed mint strips before going out to clubs to party and hook up with boys. At other times, it moves into intense melodrama on themes like sexual assault, the untimely death of a peer, and parents who ghosted on their families. While there are plenty of coming-of-age movies that have managed to strike the right balance between raunchy comedy and the difficult issues common to the late teen years, there's a sense with Dude of trying too hard to be all these things.

Perhaps it wants to be Dazed and Confused meets Girls meets My So-Called Life meets The Breakfast Club meets any number of 1980s raunchy teen sex, drugs, and rock-and-roll comedies. At its best, Dude is a welcome addition to the above, despite its flaws. The acting, in spite of it being entirely 20-something beautiful actors playing teenagers (for all the trials these characters face, acne clearly isn't one of them), is excellent. And Jack McBrayer, in a cameo as a hippie teacher, steals the scene in what might be the funniest part of the movie. There's a lot of good to this, and the ambition deserves and earns respect, but the extremes between tragedy and comedy, coupled with a too-convenient ending, stand in the way of a good movie being great.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about coming-of-age movies. How does Dude compare to other movies in which teens struggle to make sense of the changes happening inside and around them?

  • How did the movie portray drug and alcohol use? Did it seem realistic or did it seem over-the-top and glamorized for entertainment's sake? Were there consequences?

  • Traditionally, raunchy coming-of-age movies center on teen boys who go to parties, take drugs and alcohol, and try to find girls to have sex with. How is this movie different? How are girls and women usually portrayed in movies like these?

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