Parents' Guide to Find Your Friends

Movie 2026 NR 89 minutes
Find Your Friends Movie Poster: Party scene with dancing silhouettes and a woman's face in the background.

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Jose Solis By Jose Solis , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Violent girls' trip thriller with drugs, nudity, gore.

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What's the Story?

FIND YOUR FRIENDS follows Amber (Helena Howard) as she joins her best friends Lavinia (Bella Thorne), Zosia (Zión Moreno), Lola (Chloe Cherry), and Maddy (Sophia Ali) for a girls' trip from Los Angeles to Joshua Tree. What starts as a weekend meant for partying and letting loose turns tense once the group runs into hostility from locals in the small desert town, and the pressure only builds as Amber, still reeling from a recent trauma, struggles to get the support she needs from friends who are more focused on their own good time. As encounters with the town's residents grow more threatening, old resentments inside the friend group start to surface, and the trip shifts from an escape into a fight for survival.

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Somewhere between an overlong episode of Gossip Girl and a diluted riff on Bodies Bodies Bodies, this thriller never finds the nerve to be as sharp as it wants to be. Find Your Friends has a real idea at its core: women meeting male violence with violence of their own, refusing the burden of fixing or educating the men around them. But the idea needed a sturdier foundation than gore and hedonism, and the film never finds the wit or badassery that could have made these women feel dangerous rather than decorative. The bloody, dismemberment-heavy climax tracks logically but still feels unearned, missing the control that made Promising Young Woman land so hard. Loosely inspired by writer-director Izabel Pakzad's own experience, it plays more like a revenge fantasy than anything rooted in lived truth.

Helena Howard is the exception, pulling real feeling out of Amber's trauma while staying believable inside this world. Everyone else is a type, closer to the caricatures of Spring Breakers than to actual friends, and the film never explains what binds this group together. Chloe Cherry's distinct presence barely registers, swallowed by a script that treats its supporting cast as interchangeable. It moves fast enough to avoid feeling slow, but "derivative" is the word that sticks once the credits roll.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about whether fighting male violence with equal amounts of female violence counts as justice, or if it just repeats the same cycle in a different direction. Where do you draw the line?

  • Zosia is the only one who consistently checks on Amber after her trauma, while the rest of the group stays absorbed in their own good time. What does real support look like after something like this happens, and why do you think the others struggle to give it?

  • The women in this film are treated with hostility just for being present in this town. Have you ever felt judged or unwelcome somewhere just for who you are, and how did you handle it?

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