Forgetting Sarah Marshall

 
Not as crass as other Apatow hits, but still not for kids.
  • Review Date: April 15, 2008
  • Rated: R
  • Genre: Comedy
  • Release Year: 2008
  • Running Time: 111 minutes

What parents need to know

Positive messages

Couples cheat on each other and cover up their misdeeds with lies. Still, friends back each other up and exes find a way to talk maturely about their failed relationships and what they appreciate about each other.

Violence

Some loud arguments between couples; a bar owner beats Peter up for trying to steal a picture; two guys shove each other at the beach.

Sex

Lots of jokes about sex; the first major scene involves repeated male full-frontal nudity, as well as naked backside shots. The main character is later shown having tons of one-night stands. Simulated sex acts in various positions. Couples cuddle post-coitus under sheets. A man teaches another man -- who is inexperienced -- his sexual tricks by humping large chess pieces. A honeymooner laments his new bride's excessive sexual demands and complains about not being able to find part of a woman's anatomy. Pictures of bare breasts.

Language

Lots of cursing, including many uses of "s--t," "dick," "bitch," and "f--k."

Consumerism

Some hotel signage; Sean John, Sesame Street, Elmo, and Fraggle Rock are all name-checked. Logo for O'Neill surfing gear is prominently displayed.

Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Lots of getting sloshed, especially post-breakup. Some references to buying, selling, and smoking weed.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that this comedy -- which was produced by Knocked Up director Judd Apatow -- is actually a lot less crass than the other hit movies he's worked on ... despite the fact that it features full-frontal male nudity right off the bat. In fact, it's downright warm-and-fuzzy in parts, revealing the heartache of breakups and the complexities of relationships. All of that said, it can't avoid its Apatowian roots altogether; there's plenty of salty language (from "f--k" to "b-tch"), sexual content, social drinking, and references to drug use.

What's the story?

When his TV actress girlfriend, the titular Sarah Marshall (Kristen Bell), calls to say she's arrived home early from a trip and is coming over, Peter (Jason Segel) hustles to get his apartment cleaned and strips naked, hoping for an action-packed homecoming. Instead, she dumps him (while he's still naked), sending him into paroxysms of grief. To forget her, he heads to Hawaii -- but, as luck would have it, she's vacationing there, too, with her new beau, rocker Aldous Snow (British comic Russell Brand). In no short order, Peter careens from pining for Sarah to hooking up with hotel clerk Rachel (Mila Kunis). Forgetting Sarah Marshall isn't really all that difficult -- or is it?

Is it any good?

QUALITY
 

From the movie's skin-baring set-up to its end credits, you can't help but root for Peter, a musician who's wasted his talents scoring Sarah's stereotypical crime show instead of working on the vampire puppet opera that showcases his quirky sense of humor. Segel, who wrote the script, is as appealing here as he is on his own TV show, How I Met Your Mother. He has an ear for dialogue and manages to convey the complexity of relationships. And he's supported by a winning cast (his chemistry with Kunis is particularly fantastic) -- the most memorable are Brand, who's simply perfect as Snow, and Paul Rudd, who plays a surfing guru who's taken one toke too many.

But no matter how much you root for Peter, something's missing from this Judd Apatow-produced film when it comes to genuine laugh-out-loud moments. Chuckles, yes, but belly laughs? Not so much. That's because the scenes feel curiously un-punchy; it's as if we've heard these jokes before. Even the much-talked-about naked scene is a letdown (no lewd pun intended). It's just not as funny as it could be. That may be because director Nicholas Stoller allows the movie to meander from one mishap to the next without differentiating peaks from valleys.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about how the filmmakers deal with the fine line between being crude and being funny. Which side do they fall on more often? Who decides where that line falls to begin with? Families can also discuss why breakups are popular fodder for movies. Where's the humor in the end of a relationship? Why do you think Sarah breaks up with Peter to begin with? Was his reaction surprising or understandable?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:April 17, 2008
DVD release date:September 30, 2008
Cast:Jason Segel, Kristen Bell, Mila Kunis
Director:Nicholas Stoller
Studio:Universal Pictures
Genre:Comedy
Run time:111 minutes
MPAA rating:R
MPAA explanation:sexual content, language and some graphic nudity.

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Teen, 16 years old Written byKaihfewuory327ybch April 19, 2011
age 2+
 

Great for people who like seeing Jason Segel nude

The full frontal of Jason Segel had me diving for the off button! Yuck- did not enjoy this movie (except for the dracula scene)
What other families should know
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Parent of a 2, 3, 5, 8, and 11 year old Written bykanpope March 2, 2010
age 16+
 
Not for any kids that you have control over what they watch. Older kids will find it funny but sends inappropriate messages about relationships, sex, and drug use. If you are old enough to know better...it is a riot!
What other families should know
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking
Teen, 13 years old Written by23553 July 7, 2011
age 13+
 

Good for mature 13 year olds or over.

I'm 13 and really liked this. However, I'm sure that there are 13 year olds that wouldn't be ready to see this. There certainly was a fair amount of sex and language. While some of the messages certainly weren't great, I thought that at the end, it was a good message that he tells the truth, and eventually, it turns out well.
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Great messages
Too much sex
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