Grace and Grit

Spousal abuse by an aspirational character is shown from his point of view in a way that suggests his wife brought it on herself. Implied abortion. Suicidal ideation in front of a gun store. Jokes about suicide.

Romantic storyline with lots of snuggling, passionate kissing, sensuality, a bit of suggestive talk. In context of breast cancer, several shots of clothed breasts -- including a male looking appreciatively at a woman's chest and a pubescent girl admiring her chest in the mirror.

Strong language includes "bitch," "boob," "crap," "dammit," and several uses of "f--k."

Heavy alcohol consumption by sympathetic and aspirational male lead, portrayed as being driven to drink by his life's difficulties. While depicted negatively, no significant consequences come from the drinking. A beer is touted as being good for you.

Parents need to know that Grace and Grit is based on the true story of the romance between New Age philosopher Ken Wilber (Stuart Townsend) and his wife, Treya Killam Wilber (Mena Suvari), who's diagnosed with breast cancer 10 days after their wedding. It's adapted from Ken's same-named bestselling book about their experience, which has been praised for providing inspirational guidance for cancer patients and caregivers. But this filmed version doesn't connect those dots as successfully, and Treya and Ken's "idyllic" romance has problematic aspects. First, it sets up unrealistic expectations of love, including the idea that the two have a shared transcendent experience when they touch. Second, amid all of their lovey-dovey behavior, there's also an instance of domestic violence; Treya, the victim, is despondent until Ken "wants her back," and then their relationship is good again. Ken also starts drinking heavily throughout Treya's cancer treatment, not because of her failing health, but more because he's upset that his wife's physical needs are distracting him from his work. That sexist subtext is felt in other areas, too, though you have to wonder whether that's the movie, Ken, or the 1980s setting. In some ways, the film feels like an infomercial for Ken and his books, which are displayed and referenced throughout. Strong language includes "bitch" and "f--k"; there's also suicidal ideation (and jokes about suicide), passionate kissing, and suggestive talk.

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