Parents' Guide to

House of Sand and Fog

By Nell Minow, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 17+

Serious and thoughtful; for mature teens+.

Movie R 2003 125 minutes
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Community Reviews

age 16+

Based on 2 parent reviews

age 15+

Perfect for Mature Teens and Adults

Very good emotional drama between two families and the struggle for this house. Some mild language with about 7 F words in all but 2 sex scenes in which one is mildly graphic. 5/5 :)

This title has:

Too much violence
Too much sex
Too much swearing
age 17+

Incredibly depressing

This is an excellent film. Its very deep but extremly dark and depressing. Violence: Extreme. Characters attempt or commit suicide and nearly all characters are killed. Overall, the theme of the movie is very dark and depressing. Language: Some f-words but the swearing is not frequent. Sexual content: One brief scene. Drug Content: A character becomes an alcoholic. A character attemps suicide by swallowing a bunch of pills. This is an excellent film but is very dark and not for kids.

Is It Any Good?

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Kids say (2):

Pride, anger, loss, desperation, law, love, strength, and weakness collide to create vast tragedy in this contemplative story of a battle for a house that overlooks the water. The lives of Kathy and Behrani circle, parallel, and intersect each other. Both must take on menial jobs and change their clothes in public bathrooms. Both are too proud to tell their families the truth about their situations. Behrani's devotion to his children parallels Kathy's loss of her father and the house he left to her when he died, as well as her own longing for a child. The Behrani family alternately treats Kathy as an intruder, a guest, and ultimately almost as a member of the family when they take her in at her most devastated and care for her as though she was a child. She wakes up the next morning in the house, swathed in silks like an Arabian nights princess. But the fairy tale becomes a nightmare.

Connelly, Kingsley, Ron Eldard as the cop who evicts Kathy, and Shohreh Aghdashloo as Mrs. Bahrani are all superb, and the adaptation of the award-winning book is a thoughtful and serious, if uneven, translation of the book's language and tone. It fails to sustain a sense of tragic inevitability and that prevents it from being truly involving.

Movie Details

  • In theaters: December 18, 2003
  • On DVD or streaming: March 29, 2004
  • Cast: Ben Kingsley, Jennifer Connelly, Shohreh Aghdashloo
  • Director: Vadim Perelman
  • Inclusion Information: Middle Eastern/North African actors
  • Studio: DreamWorks
  • Genre: Drama
  • Run time: 125 minutes
  • MPAA rating: R
  • MPAA explanation: some violence/disturbing images, language and a scene of sexuality
  • Last updated: June 2, 2023

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