Parents' Guide to Incoming

Movie R 2024 91 minutes
Incoming movie poster: Headshots of teens.

Common Sense Media Review

Jennifer Green By Jennifer Green , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Drugs, sex, language in raunchy high school comedy.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 15+

Based on 4 parent reviews

age 15+

Based on 17 kid reviews

Kids say the movie elicits strong reactions, with some finding it hilarious and insightful about being yourself, while others are put off by excessive crude humor, drug use, and sexual content. The film seems to cater to a specific comedic taste, but many viewers express disappointment over its lack of plot and inappropriate portrayals of teen life.

  • humor appreciation
  • excessive content
  • disappointing plot
  • message of authenticity
  • polarizing reactions
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What's the Story?

Benj (Mason Thames) and his best buddies Eddie (Ramon Reed), Connor (Raphael Alejandro), and Danah (Bardia Seiri) are about to start their first year of high school in INCOMING. They're nervous about fitting in. Benj has a crush on his sister Alyssa's (Ali Gallo) best friend, Bailey (Isabella Ferreira). When the group finds out that Danah's brother is hosting a big party, they plot to make it a memorable entrée into high school society.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 4 ):
Kids say ( 17 ):

Nothing new to see in this latest be-true-to-yourself tale jam-packed with hormone-driven high school hazing and flailing, but don't blame the cast. Veterans Bobby Cannavale and Kaitlin Olson are pros, and star Thames shows potential as the heart of Incoming. He conveys his character's sweetness even as Benj gets wrapped up in all kinds of mayhem.

Like Hulu's Prom Date or Netflix's Dangerous Liaisons, Incoming is a reminder that it's not so easy to make a great high school movie, no matter how many times Hollywood tries. The sketchy situations, drugs, and mutual mistreatment are only sometimes laughable and fail to find true-to-life moments. Instead, the movie takes things too far repeatedly, from the teacher's self-inflicted injuries to a senior's bowel incontinence. The end result just isn't as funny or as risqué as it hopes.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about whether the portrayal of teen life and high school seen in Incoming feels true to life or not. Why? Do you think the film tries to be realistic? Does it ever go too far?

  • What lessons do the incoming first-year students learn in this film?

  • Why do you think the character of Mr. Studebaker makes the decisions he does? What clues does the script give us about his life outside of school?

  • How does this compare to other high school comedies you've seen?

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Incoming movie poster: Headshots of teens.

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