Parents' Guide to Letters to God

Movie PG 2010 113 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 9+

Heavy-handed tearjerker about faith, death, and friendship.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 7+

Based on 3 parent reviews

age 9+

Based on 19 kid reviews

Kids say this movie is both touching and inspiring, often leading to tears due to its themes of cancer, death, and loss, making it more suitable for older kids rather than younger audiences. While some reviews mention the great performances, particularly by Bailee Madison, and the overall good message, they also point out certain scenes that may not resonate well with all viewers.

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  • encouraging themes
  • suitable for older kids
  • tearjerker moments
  • strong performances
  • life lessons
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What's the Story?

Tyler Doherty (Tanner Maguire) is a sweet and loving eight-year-old boy. He's also dying of cancer. Tyler decides to write LETTERS TO GOD which he places in his mailbox on a regular basis. The letters are picked up by their new postman, Brady (Jeffrey Johnson), who's struggling with alcoholism, divorce, and an ugly custody dispute. Confused by what to do with the letters -- but unwilling to just throw them away -- Brady contacts a local minister and begins to get to know Tyler, his loving mother Maddy (Robin Lively), teenage brother (Michael Christopher Bolten), and the other families along his daily route. As the troubled Brady deepens his friendship with the Dohertys, Tyler's faith inspires him to start believing in himself, but as Brady's personal crises start to mount, and Tyler's battle with cancer seems near the end, Brady must decide once and for all what to do with Tyler's letters.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 3 ):
Kids say ( 19 ):

This is not a subtle movie. The actual words "What would Jesus do?" are said, completely un-ironically, on several occasions. There is no doubt that this is a Christian movie with an evangelical message, and that in and of itself is not a problem. The problem is that the film (not the message) seems more like an expensive, well-acted Sunday School video to be shown to youth groups rather than a movie even non-Christians (who are, one would assume, the target audience) would enjoy. Even Fireproof went beyond its faith-based message to generally champion all marriages and remind couples that they need to work on their marriages to strengthen them. Letters to God, on the other hand, provides an almost saintly, dying protagonist who is so earnest, so devout in the face of death that it's touching but not exactly relatable. For that matter, not all non-believers are newly divorced drunks hitting bottom.

In some ways, this movie is surprisingly better than expected -- the adult actors are quite good (Lively and Johnson especially). But it's the sick-child plot that's just too upsetting (and daresay manipulative) and "Hallmark special" sentimental to fully invest in throughout the film. Of course, just because you know he's going to die doesn't mean you won't get weepy when it actually happens, but you may want to punch the director in the face for turning a dying boy into an instrument for evangelizing. Like To Save a Life, it's just too much, too bogged down by the message to deliver as a film. For a much more nuanced message film, check out Alejandro Gomez Monteverde's Bella.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the movie's messages about facing death and personal tragedy. How does Tyler's optimism and personal faith help him through the last months of his life? How does his faith affect those around him?

  • How are the consequences of Brady's drinking handled? How does his alcohol abuse take a toll on his life, and how does he change because of his belief in God?

  • Why does Tyler's mother get upset at the mention of God? Why does she have trouble with the idea of faith? What changes her heart?

  • Do you think this movie is worth seeing if you're not a Christian? Why or why not?

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