Parents' Guide to Love Actually

Movie R 2003 135 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Warm British Christmas romcom has swearing, fatphobia.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 16+

Based on 34 parent reviews

Parents say that while some view this film as a heartwarming holiday classic suitable for family viewing, many others strongly warn against its inappropriateness for children due to explicit sexual content, nudity, and strong language. The movie presents a mixture of positive messages about love and complex relationships, yet the graphic themes and adult situations deter several reviewers from recommending it for younger audiences.

  • family favorite
  • not suitable for kids
  • mixed reviews
  • graphic content
  • complex relationships
  • adult themes
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age 14+

Based on 74 kid reviews

Kids say this movie is a heartwarming romantic comedy with a collection of intertwined love stories, but it is definitely not suitable for younger audiences due to its explicit content, including nudity and strong language. While many found it enjoyable and funny, numerous reviews caution that parents should consider the maturity level of their children before watching, recommending it for teens aged 13 or older.

  • heartwarming stories
  • inappropriate content
  • strong language
  • age restriction
  • comedy elements
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What's the Story?

The interwoven stories of LOVE ACTUALLY all take place in the weeks before Christmas. They include a prime minister (Hugh Grant) who's drawn to the outspoken staffer who delivers his tea, an 11-year-old (Thomas Sangster) who wants to attract the attention of the coolest girl in school, a man (Andrew Lincoln) in love with his best friend's (Chiwetel Ejiofor) new bride (Keira Knightley), a waiter (Kris Marshall) who's sure that all his dreams of romance will come true if he goes to America, a married man (Alan Rickman) who wants to cheat on his wife (Emma Thompson), a rock star (Bill Nighy) angling for a comeback with a cheesy Christmas single, a heartbroken writer (Colin Firth) who can't stop thinking about the woman (LĂșcia Moniz) who cleans his house -- even though they don't understand each other's languages -- and a couple (Martin Freeman and Joanna Page) who meet at work as movie stand-ins assigned to increasingly (and hilariously) more intimate poses.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 34 ):
Kids say ( 74 ):

This romantic comedy is as stuffed with goodies as the Christmas stockings for those at the very top of Santa's "nice" list -- and just as entertaining, too. With Love Actually, Richard Curtis, who wrote Four Weddings and a Funeral and Notting Hill, for the first time directs his own screenplay, doing it with heart and style. It helps, of course, that he has a dream cast, including newcomer Sangster, the real-life cousin of Grant and a first-rate actor with a knockout screen presence. Each of the actors creates complete, endearing, vivid, and vulnerable characters.

However, the movie gets much of its charm from grand gestures that really shouldn't be replicated in real life. In particular, Mark's love confession to his best friend's wife and the prime minister's pursuit of a junior staffer are examples of inappropriate behavior, not romance. Meanwhile, said staffer, Natalie (Martine McCutcheon), bears the brunt of casually fatphobic jokes, which are portrayed as OK to laugh about in the film. But if you can overlook these dated elements, any movie that manages to include a child dressed as a Nativity lobster, a Bay City Rollers song played at a funeral, love-emergency lessons in both drums and Portuguese, and Hugh Grant dancing through the halls of 10 Downing Street to the Pointer Sisters may still be worth a place in your Christmas movie rotation.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how the characters in Love Actually handle their feelings of loss, longing, and fear. Which characters stuck with you the most?

  • What types of risks and chances do the characters take? Do they pay off? In your experience, does taking risks pay off?

  • The prime minister uses his power to change someone's position based on his feelings. Should world leaders be able to do this?

  • How has the film aged since it came out in 2003? What are some grand gestures that feel particularly dated? What's the difference between a gesture that's genuinely romantic, and one that's inappropriate?

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