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Love Actually

Movie review by
Nell Minow, Common Sense Media
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Romantic and entertaining -- for older teens.
  • R
  • 2003
  • 135 minutes
Popular with kids

Parents say

age 16+
Based on 38 reviews

Kids say

age 14+
Based on 53 reviews

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Love is all around.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Strong, loving diverse characters.

Violence

Some tense and sad scenes (a funeral for the wife of one of the main characters).

Sex

Sexual references and situations, nudity.

Language

Some very strong language including "f--k."

Consumerism
Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Drug humor, drinking and smoking.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Love, Actually has some very strong language, sexual references and sexual situations, including prostitutes and adultery, and humorous nudity. A character's history of sex, drugs, and rock and roll is played for humor. There are some tense and sad scenes. Some audience members may object to the portrayal of the American President (Billy Bob Thornton) as a crude bully. One of the movie's many strengths is its matter-of-fact portrayal of loving inter-racial friendship and romance.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written bycharleyc September 8, 2014
Wrong wrong wrong!!! porno!!! love???? love is not just sex.... love is more!!! its not a christmas film that you can sit down with the family!!! Think i would... Continue reading
Adult Written byBeckstar October 29, 2011

NOT FOR KIDS!

NOT FOR CHILDREN!!! At the beginning when I saw it a man is behind a woman and stroking her bare breasts and there is a sex scene. I think they are shooting for... Continue reading
Teen, 16 years old Written byCharmed_Hood July 5, 2016

Great movie but not for anyone under 14!!!

I think this movie brilliant, perfect for adults at christmas! Its full of laughs but I wouldn't let younger children watch it!
Teen, 17 years old Written byRobynneHood February 15, 2012

Love Actually is exactly that.

The wonderful thing about this movie is that it shows love in all forms, and it doesn't hold back. For every vignette with a fairy tale ending, there is on... Continue reading

What's the story?

The interwoven stories of LOVE ACTUALLY all take place in the weeks before Christmas. They include a Prime Minister (Hugh Grant) who is drawn to the outspoken girl who delivers his tea, an 11-year old (Thomas Sangster) who wants to attract the attention of the coolest girl in school, a man in love with his best friend's new bride, a waiter who is sure that all his dreams of romance will come true if he goes to America, a thoroughly married man (Alan Rickman) whose flirtatious secretary is making him wonder how thoroughly married he is, a rock star (Bill Nighy) angling for a comeback with a cheesy Christmas single, a heartbroken writer (Colin Firth) who can't stop thinking about the woman who cleans his house, even though they don't understand each other's languages, and a couple who meet at work as movie stand-ins assigned to increasingly (and hilariously) more intimate poses.

Is it any good?

This romantic comedy is as stuffed with goodies as the Christmas stockings for those at the very top of Santa's "nice" list -- and it is just as entertaining, too. Richard Curtis, who wrote Four Weddings and a Funeral and Notting Hill for the first time directs his own screenplay with heart and style. It helps, of course, that he has a dream cast, including newcomer Sangster, a real-life cousin of Hugh Grant and already a first-rate actor and a knock-out screen presence. Each of the actors creates complete, endearing, vivid, and vulnerable characters that we will remember long after we have forgotten most "stars" who spend two full hours onscreen in the latest multiplex fodder.

Love Actually is a movie about taking big chances (both hopeful and hopeless), about making big gestures to show our love, and about big, big feelings that may make us crazy and miserable but remind us that we are alive and why we are alive. In addition, any movie that manages to include a child dressed as a Nativity lobster, a Bay City Rollers song played at a funeral, love-emergency lessons in both drums and Portuguese, and Hugh Grant dancing through the halls of 10 Downing Street to the Pointer Sisters is worth seeing at least twice.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how the characters in Love, Actually handle their feelings of loss, longing, and fear.

  • What types of risks and chances do the characters take? Do they pay off? In your experience, does taking risks pay off?

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