Maid in Manhattan

Undeniably pleasing if not particularly memorable.
  • Review Date: April 28, 2003
  • Rated: PG-13
  • Genre: Romance
  • Release Year: 2002
  • Running Time: 104 minutes

What parents need to know

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Non-explicit sexual situation.


Some vulgar language.

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Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Social drinking.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that there is some crude humor (mostly from the wisecracking best friend) and brief strong language. Chris and Marisa have sex (off camera and no nudity). The movie does make it clear that stealing and lying are always wrong and have severe consequences.

What's the story?

MAID IN MANHATTAN Cinderella in a hotel. Jennifer Lopez plays Marisa, a maid at a big luxury hotel in Manhattan. She has a darling son, an unreliable ex-husband, and a mother who tells her not to dream of more than she has. Cashmere-voiced Ralph Fiennes plays Chris, a Senate candidate who has no heart for the hypocrisy of the campaign. When Marisa's best friend urges her to try on a fabulously expensive designer pantsuit about to be returned by a hotel guest, Chris sees her in the suit. Thinking she is staying at the hotel instead of cleaning it up, he invites her out. After various complications, Marisa tells the truth and Chris has to decide whether she really is the person he thinks -- or wants to think -- she is.

Is it any good?


Romantic comedies are so endlessly appealing both to those looking back on their own experience of falling in love and those looking forward to it that Hollywood keeps cranking them out. The elements seem so simple -- the plucky but vulnerable heroine, the wisecracking best friend, the handsome hero all but dumbstruck by the heroine's charm and beauty, the second act complication, and the happily-ever-after ending. Yet, like love itself, perhaps, it is a goal more often sought than obtained, and the key ingredient to make it work is impossible to define.

Maid in Manhattan is as careful a combination of ingredients as it is possible to package. Every aspect is a proven commodity designed to go to the heart of the core fantasies of a 13-year-old girl, and the end result is undeniably pleasing, if not particularly memorable. Marisa is an appealing heroine, beloved by her son and her co-workers, loyal, practical but optimistic. She dreams of being more but isn't anything as icky as ambitious or confident or focused. Chris, too, dreams of more but isn't craven, like his political advisor. Everything is at the fairy tale level, which means we never dwell on troubling realities like what, exactly, Chris hopes to achieve as a senator or how, exactly, Marisa gets a job after being fired for stealing. The best and worst you can say about the movie is that there are no surprises -- no bad ones, but no good ones, either.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about how -- and why -- Marisa's mother was an obstacle to pursuing her dreams. How is the end different from most movies of this kind? Why? How is this story like Cinderella and how is it different?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:December 13, 2002
DVD release date:March 25, 2003
Cast:Jennifer Lopez, Natasha Richardson, Ralph Fiennes
Director:Wayne Wang
Studio:Columbia Tristar
Run time:104 minutes
MPAA rating:PG-13
MPAA explanation:some language/sexual references

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Teen, 15 years old Written byLuvEwan4Ever! April 9, 2008
age 0+

not as good as i thought it would be

i thought this movie was wasnt as good as i thought it would be but still ok. the sexual references is pretty low key if u ask me. theres a bit of swearing here and there....umm theres also quite a bit of blasphemy (just noted that for those who find that kinda thing offensive) this movie is the sorta one youd see on tv during midday or something like that. nothing really spectacular but i guess its worth watching
Teen, 13 years old Written byluvpink December 25, 2011
age 10+

Decent Movie

Besides some language this movie was quite chaste for PG-13 reminded me of something that should be PG. Good movie.
What other families should know
Too much swearing
Teen, 16 years old Written byTotally500 July 8, 2012
age 11+

very good movie

this is a very good movie one of my fav movies from jlo
What other families should know
Great messages
Great role models
Too much swearing


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