Parents' Guide to Meet the Fockers

Movie PG-13 2004 90 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Lots of sexual humor in forced family farce.

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Why Age 14+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 14+

Based on 8 parent reviews

age 13+

Based on 31 kid reviews

Kids say this movie has a mix of humor, with many viewers noting its heavy reliance on sexual jokes and inappropriate themes that may not be suitable for younger audiences. While some appreciate its comedy and believe it to be a solid sequel, many find it less charming and enjoyable than its predecessor, often questioning its PG-13 rating.

  • sexual jokes
  • inappropriate themes
  • less charming sequel
  • mixed reviews
  • suitable for mature viewers
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What's the Story?

After winning the approval of his fiancee Pam (Teri Polo)'s parents in Meet the Parents, Greg Focker (Ben Stiller) invites the straightlaced Byrnes family to meet his own eccentric family in MEET THE FOCKERS. Everyone -- including super-programmed grandchild Jack-Jack -- hops into Jack (Robert DeNiro)'s super-fitted RV and head to Florida, where they meet Greg's parents (Barbra Streisand and Dustin Hoffman) -- the kind of people for whom the term "boundary issues" was created.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 8 ):
Kids say ( 31 ):

Audiences who laugh at this movie are probably laughing more because they want to find it funny than because they actually do. The movie reprises many jokes from the first movie as well of some of its own. There is a slight but viable joke in the very beginning of the movie, when Greg has to leave a voicemail for his parents and ends up waiting through their incompetent answering machine recording, not realizing that they had not turned it off so including some very personal material. But within the next 15 minutes, the joke is repeated two more times. That still leaves time for plenty of attention to Greg's mother Roz, a sex therapist. But most of all, this is about how Greg, instead of being embarrassed about his fears of his own inadequacy, he is embarrassed about the external representation of those fears -- his parents.

Everyone tries hard. They all but climb down out of the screen. Hoffman kisses everyone, sits on the toilet while DeNiro is in the shower, moonwalks, and spreads whipped cream over Streisand's breasts. DeNiro wears a prosthetic breast called a "man-ary gland." It doesn't have whipped cream, but it does have breast milk pumped through it so his grandchild will feel that his mother is nursing him. Blythe Danner asks Streisand for sex tips. And Stiller has to stand before a trophy wall that displays his 9th place ribbons, his bar mitzvah tallit, and his high school jock strap.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about stereotyping. What kinds of stereotypes did you recognize in the movie? Were they funny, and if so, why? Where do stereotypes come from? What are the positives and negatives of stereotypes?

  • Talk about how sex is used in the movie. There's no explicit sex, but plenty of sexual talk. How did you react to it? Why do you think the filmmakers decided to use sexual humor so heavily?

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