Common Sense Media Review
By Tracy Moore
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Squeaky-clean romcom offers positive messages about love.
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My Girlfriend's Boyfriend
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What's the Story?
Waitress Jesse (Alyssa Milano) is recently divorced, but, encouraged by a family friend to get back out there, she gives her number to a writer, Ethan (Christopher Gorham), at the cafe where she works. Soon after, new customer Troy (Michael Landes) gives Jesse his number, and suddenly she's torn between two great but very different men, having to make a tough choice between which one is better for her. But things aren't always what they seem, and Jesse struggles to be honest about her past and the future that awaits her.
Is It Any Good?
It has a somewhat contrived plot that isn't apparent until the end, but in spite of this, the movie offers a nice counter to a lot of modern romcoms and stays wholesome throughout. It has hardly any sex in it and instead focuses on the slow and steady way people get to know each other, underscores what we're all looking for in a romantic partner, and how important it is to be honest with people along the way. The characters feel a little more believable than most, with a kind of affable chemistry and low-key humor that keeps things moving even when the plot feels far-fetched.
Some heavy themes about divorce and childbearing make this best for older kids, but overall it's a refreshing meditation on the merits of really taking your time and getting to know someone before committing.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about My Girlfriend's Boyfriend's plot. Do you think the movie's structure makes sense? Why, or why not?
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What is the movie's main message about love? Do you agree?
Movie Details
- In theaters : April 12, 2010
- On DVD or streaming : June 7, 2011
- Cast : Alyssa Milano , Michael Landes , Christopher Gorham
- Director : Daryn Tufts
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : GAIAM
- Genre : Romance
- Run time : 84 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : Rated PG for some mild thematic elements.
- Last updated : September 20, 2019
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