My Summer of Love

Movie review by
Cynthia Fuchs, Common Sense Media
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Coming-of-age tale has teen sex, drugs, and language.
  • R
  • 2005
  • 86 minutes

Parents say

age 14+
Based on 2 reviews

Kids say

age 15+
Based on 1 review

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The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Girls lie and taunt others.


Angry grabbing of throats and pushing. Attempted drowning.


Sixteen-year-old girl has brief sex with married male lover. Two girls have drug-hazy sex. Teen characters seen in underwear. Character sunbathes topless. 


Some uses of "f--k" and other curse words.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Smoking, drinking, drugs (magic mushrooms).

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that My Summer of Love features instances of smoking, drinking, and drug use (including mushrooms), some rough language (including "f--k"), some experimentation with a Ouija board, discussion of anorexia, arguments over religious faith (the brother has been born again in prison and imposes it on his sister), a sex scene between a 16-year-old girl and her married male lover, and a lesbian relationship between two high school students. For mature viewers, the film offers a complicated look at belief and desire, and terrific performances by the young leads. The movie includes brief violence, when a character grabs a girl by the throat, and when one girl learns the other has been lying and tries to drown her.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of a 8 and 11-year-old Written byAmira1976 March 21, 2010

Not for Anyone

I truly regret watching this film. The way it has been made is so direct , leading us right into lesbian love of teenagers with obvious sexual symbols like a g... Continue reading
Parent of a 8, 11, and 16-year-old Written byCamillaandherkids June 11, 2009

kinda innapropriate

My sixteen year old daughter saw it and said "whoa"!
Teen, 13 years old Written byBecky Chandler January 1, 2014

Excellent Portrayal of a Lesbian Romance

I think this film is one of the very few films/TV shows that portray a lesbian relationship so accurately and beautifully. The acting - especially by Emily Blun... Continue reading

What's the story?

In MY SUMMER OF LOVE, Mona (Natalie Press) is feeling confined by the Yorkshire village where she's lived all her life. Everything changes when she meets lovely, upper-class Tamsin (Emily Blunt). The girls hit it off and, as Tamsin's parents are away, they begin to spend their days in the family's luxurious grand mansion and grounds. Working-class Mona enjoys the fineries, but her brother, Phil (Paddy Considine) -- just released from prison -- worries that she's away from home, and his newfound religious interests strain the siblings' relationship. The girls' romance builds slowly. They share secrets, as when Tamsin recalls her dead sister's struggle with anorexia and takes up Mona's defense over her ex-lover, a married man (Dean Andrews), with whom she shared clandestine, joyless, backseat sex before her dumped her. Eventually, Phil's efforts to control Mona drive her to make a choice between her known past and the unknowable Tamsin.

Is it any good?

An intricate study of high school-age rebellion and yearning, My Summer of Love makes a familiar plot seem new. In part this is because it takes the view of young Mona, superbly portrayed by Natalie Press. The girls' budding romance evolves in an alternately fluid and jaunty process as they explore one another and their own feelings, partly a function of cinematographer Ryszard Lenczewski's adept handheld camerawork, and partly of Pawlikowski's experience as a documentary maker.

Each member of this threesome is obsessive in his or her own way. When Phil literally locks Mona in her bedroom in an effort to "save" her, she begins drawing Tamsin's portrait on her wall. This image -- colored chalk on the roughhewn surface -- showcases Tamsin's eye as Mona perceives and needs it, a means to see herself reflected.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the relationship between orphaned Mona and her brother. How might they alleviate tensions by discussing their differences? Is her hope that he'll be "like he was" before prison both unrealistic and understandable? How? And how does she see his efforts to protect her as efforts to control her? 

  • How does the film show problems caused by deceit -- between siblings, friends, and lovers? How does Mona's yearning for escape lead her to believe promises that can't be true?

  • How does this compare to other coming-of-age movies you've seen?

Movie details

Our editors recommend

For kids who love romantic dramas

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