Parents' Guide to Regretting You

Movie PG-13 2025 117 minutes
Regretting You movie poster: The main characters in romantic poses

Common Sense Media Review

Tara McNamara By Tara McNamara , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Romance adaptation has mom-daughter drama, pot, drinking.

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age 13+

Based on 12 parent reviews

age 13+

Based on 11 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In REGRETTING YOU, Clara (Mckenna Grace) is a high school senior—the same age her mother, Morgan (Allison Williams), was when she got pregnant with Clara. Now a loving but overprotective mom, Morgan clashes often with her daughter, especially about Miller Adams (Mason Thames), the coolest boy in school, whom Morgan is sure is also a bad influence. As Clara and Miller get closer against Morgan's objections, a sudden loss threatens to drive an unbridgeable wedge between mother and daughter.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 12 ):
Kids say ( 11 ):

Watching this stiff adaptation of Colleen Hoover's bestselling novel, you can't help but think the author is regretting the choice of director Josh Boone (who also helmed The Fault in Our Stars). Regretting You's premise is creative: It's twisty and undeniably original (not surprising, given that the novel was a juicy page-turner). But on screen, the spark fizzles. The dialogue doesn't pop, the phrases and cinematography feel dated, and, despite the cast's talent, the performances feel so stilted that they could join the circus. There's zero chemistry, and none of the romantic relationships feel lived-in or believable. In this case, it feels like the fault isn't in our stars, but rather in the director.

It's a let-down. But that doesn't mean that it doesn't have value to teens. No, it's not ultra captivating, but it is the kind of movie you can watch while fiddling on your phone. It's easy to picture a bunch of teens watching this together, reacting to scenes in which Clara smokes her first joint, gets drunk (and consequently hungover), and moves into intimacy too quickly. And the upside is that it's made clear that doing all of this isn't in her best interest, and the only one she's hurting is herself. Also, male love interests treat women with respect and restraint, putting their partners' needs above their own, with the occasional appreciated grand gesture. Most of all, there's a strong theme of needing to figure out how to do the right thing when everything around you feels wrong. Regretting You may not be good, but it's not half-bad, either—and here, both things can be true.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the drug and alcohol use in Regretting You. Why do Clara and Morgan drink and smoke pot? Is substance use glamorized? Are there realistic consequences? Why does that matter?

  • Do you think Morgan and Chris' objections to Clara dating Miller are fair? Should someone be judged based on the actions of others in their family? Why, or why not?

  • What are some signs of true love? Do Miller and Jonah demonstrate these signs? What makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy?

  • If you read the book the movie is based on, which parts translated easily to the screen? What didn't make it or work out as well? What are the challenges of turning a novel into a movie?

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