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Parents' Guide to

The Family Man

By Nell Minow, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 13+

Warmhearted tale about second chances; some sex, profanity.

Movie PG-13 2000 125 minutes
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A Lot or a Little?

What you will—and won't—find in this movie.

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Based on 5 parent reviews

TriathlonMom
TriathlonMom Adult
November 23, 2014
age 17+

CommonSense neglected to mention a nude scene and an f***...

We commonsense EVERYTHING before we watch it and love being able to filter our media with CSM.org We liked the story and the show for the first 40 minutes... until we were startled by a nude scene that CommonSense completely forgot to mention!! The mom is shown dancing very enthusiastically in the shower through a semi-fogged glass shower door- butt crack and nipples were visible. Then, ten minutes later, a f-word that CSM also forgot to mention. Who knows what else CSM didn't tell us about because we turned the show off. So disappointed in the film and especially in CommonSense who we trust to keep our media intake clean.
Ceetee
Ceetee Adult
September 2, 2021
age 18+

Looks can be deceiving

It looked like it was going to be a light romantic take on It’s a Wonderful Life and in a kind of was. The story was progressing along and all very PG -PG13ish when all of a sudden out of the blue the characters are swearing a blue streak without any need to bring development to the story. He’s also thinking of cheating on his beautiful devoted wife. Thankfully, His best friend tells him, he’d be making the mistake of his life!
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What's the Story?

Nicolas Cage plays Jack Campbell, a man who is perfectly delighted with his life the way it is. He loves money, making it on Wall Street, and spending it on expensive suits, gourmet meals, and a snazzy sports car. He doesn't mind Scrooge-ily calling a meeting at the office on Christmas, telling himself it's for the employees' own good, since they'll be making so much money. But then he stops to buy eggnog and sees a man (Don Cheadle) pull out a gun when a store clerk refuses to pay off his lottery ticket. His offer to buy the ticket mysteriously catapults him into the life he chose not to have -- a life in the New Jersey suburbs, with him married to his college sweetheart (Tea Leoni), with two small children and a job selling tires. His old life has disappeared. It's his worst nightmare, and he gets many opportunities to be horrified by diapers and outlet-store merchandise and to completely deconstruct his old life before he begins to realize what he's missed.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say (5 ):
Kids say (2 ):

There's some predictability and awkward construction in this movie; it feels as if it were edited heavily after focus-group testing, leaving some characters and plot lines unresolved. Nonetheless, this is a holiday pleasure. Cage and Leoni are enormously appealing in their various incarnations. There are some funny lines and warm moments, especially when the one person Jack can't fool is his daughter, who knows this is not the daddy she loves and decides he must be an alien. And there is a satisfying resolution that incorporates the best of both options.

The grand tradition of "what if?" movies from A Christmas Carol to It's a Wonderful Life and the more recent Passion of Mind and Me Myself I show us an unhappy hero or heroine who finds out what life would have been like if he or she had made a different choice. Though in this version, Jack loved his life to begin with.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about some of the "roads not taken" and what they think their lives might be like now if they had made other choices.

  • Comparisons have been made of this movie to the 1940s Christmas classic It's a Wonderful Life. How is this movie similar to and different from that classic film and other holiday-themed movies and stories in which selfish characters learn the importance of love and the bonds of family, friendship, and community?

  • How is marriage represented in this movie? What are the highs and lows, as well as the joys and difficulties, conveyed through action and dialogue? Do you think it's realistic? Why, or why not?

  • What do you think the angel will do for the young woman who accepted too much change?

Movie Details

  • In theaters: December 22, 2000
  • On DVD or streaming: July 2, 2001
  • Cast: Don Cheadle , Nicolas Cage , Tea Leoni
  • Director: Brett Ratner
  • Inclusion Information: Black actors, Female actors
  • Studio: Universal Pictures
  • Genre: Comedy
  • Run time: 125 minutes
  • MPAA rating: PG-13
  • MPAA explanation: sexual references and situations and language
  • Last updated: June 2, 2023

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