Parents' Guide to The Father

Movie PG-13 2021 97 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Kat Halstead By Kat Halstead , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Alzheimer's drama has strong language and adult themes.

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age 14+

Based on 2 parent reviews

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Based on 7 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In THE FATHER, Anthony (Anthony Hopkins) is introduced as a smart, charming older man living in a London flat, which his daughter Anne (Olivia Colman) visits regularly. But that version of reality is gradually challenged as it is revealed Anthony is suffering from Alzheimer's and his account of events is not always reliable. As the past, present, and elements of fantasy collide, Anthony struggles to make sense of his changing reality, which seems more and more at odds with his experience.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 2 ):
Kids say ( 7 ):

Oscar-winner Hopkins gives one of the finest performances of his career as a man slowly losing his grip on reality and experiencing the full cycle of emotions that come with that. In some scenes in The Father, he's the vivid, charming, cultured man of a not-so-distant past. But in others, he's angry and defiant, then in a moment scared and childlike in his need to be soothed. Fellow Academy Award-winner Colman beautifully portrays the pain and frustration of managing the situation, in which help is constantly refused and her motives often questioned. She herself fluctuates between pandering, correcting, and losing control of her own anger.

The genius of the film really lies in its structure and casting. In his debut feature as director, Florian Zeller adapts his own stage play for the screen, making clever choices that leave the audience as disorientated as Anthony's character. One of those is having different actors play the same role, so that when Anthony doesn't recognize his daughter, the audience experiences the same dissociation. Even within the flat where Anthony lives, furniture subtly changes, timeframes shift, and apparent strangers appear as if from nowhere -- some of the most heartbreaking moments coming when he refuses to react for fear he can't possibly explain. It's an incredibly difficult watch at times, but Hopkins' performance makes the film such an intimate and compelling experience that it's hard to look away.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Alzheimer's disease is portrayed in The Father. What are some of the techniques used to show how Anthony is experiencing events? How does the movie shed light on Alzheimer's? How does Anthony's diagnosis impact him and his family?

  • What do you think is the appeal of sad movies like this one? Why do we like to watch movies about tragedy and hardship? What can we take away from these emotional experiences?

  • Discuss the relationship between Anthony and Anne. Did it seem a loving one? How did Anne show empathy and compassion toward her father?

  • Talk about the language used in the movie. Did it seem necessary or excessive? What did it contribute to the movie?

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