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Parents' Guide to

The Grudge

By Nell Minow, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 16+

Grisly ghost story has lots of violence, scares.

Movie PG-13 2004 96 minutes
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age 13+

Based on 15 parent reviews

Moi H.
Moi H. Parent
April 16, 2023
age 16+

Inappropriate scene not disclosed here in the ratings

Inappropriate scene has the actress on top of her partner in panties while heavy kissing
HorrorMovieFan2947
HorrorMovieFan2947 Adult
April 16, 2020
age 12+

First horror movie I watched

I watched this film when I was 12 and it never scared me. rewatched it last week and here is what I think of it: Violence- 4/10- No violent kills but kayakoo kills the people off screen in brutal ways. This means that the violence is left to our minds. Language 2/10- Words such as hell and damn are used. No swear words. Sexual content 3/10- after the woman gets killed, a couple are in bed and they kiss, implying sex but everything happens off screen. Drinking smoking or drugs 0/10- there is nothing to do with this in the film. Horror - It all depends how long u watched horror films. I never found it scary, but other people are horrified of it. There are some intense scenes such as the bed scene of the crawling scene, but overall nothing bad. The movie itself is alright, it is very mediocre but the sequels get better, other than the remake ( that movie kinda sucks ). Overall, I think a 12 year old could handle this movie
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What's the Story?

An American exchange student (Sarah Michelle Gellar as Karen) in Japan is sent out as a substitute for the caregiver of a woman suffering from some dementia. The woman is an American, living with her son and daughter-in-law, and with a daughter living nearby. It turns out that the house was once the site of great rage and anguish, giving rise to a curse that attacks anyone who enters.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say (15 ):
Kids say (70 ):

THE GRUDGE is one of those "Don't go into the house" movies, a remake of a popular Japanese horror film by Takashi Shimizu, the writer/director of the original. Shimizu makes good use of shifts in time to pull us into what little story there is. The usual ghost activities (messing up the house, stalking people) are updated a little bit. These ghosts can call a cell phone and get from the lobby to the 16th floor very quickly. There are some creepy images and gotcha scares, but nothing can disguise the fact that this is just a "who gets it next and how does he get it" movie. Too much of it is familiar, though, from the mysteriously feral child to the backwards-crab-crawling guy looking horrified at some looming presence. You know if a bloody jaw with teeth shows up, eventually we're going to have to find out where it came from.

Indeed, the biggest problem with the film is that, like many American remakes, it feels it has to explain too much. We get a helpful little ghost re-enactment of the whole story. Horror movies are much more horrifying when they leave the explanation to that part of our imagination where our own deepest fears lie, so that each of us can feel personally unsettled right where we live.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the enduring appeal of ghost stories and their own views on whether strong emotions can continue to "occupy" a place. They might also want to find out more about efforts to investigate real-life reports of ghosts and curses.

  • This was a remake of a Japanese film, made by the same director. Why do you think the movie was remade, and what would be the challenges in not only remaking a movie, but also remaking a movie that you, the director, have already made?

  • A trope of the "haunted house" horror movie is that the characters, unlike anyone else with the least bit of common sense, don't flee the house posthaste after the first scary moment, but instead choose to investigate further. Why do horror movie writers allow their characters to have such poor judgment?

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