Parents' Guide to The Grudge

Movie PG-13 2004 96 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Grisly ghost story has lots of violence, scares.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 16+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 16 parent reviews

Parents say this film is either too creepy or boring for kids, with many reviews suggesting it is not suitable for younger audiences due to its graphic imagery and disturbing themes. While some viewers appreciate the atmospheric tension and intricate storylines, others find it confusing and lacking in genuine scares, recommending caution when considering it for teens under 16.

  • too intense
  • confusing plot
  • graphic imagery
  • mixed reviews
  • not for kids
  • atmospheric tension
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age 12+

Based on 64 kid reviews

Kids say this movie elicits a wide range of reactions; while some find it a horror classic with effective suspense and creepy imagery, others view it as boring and lacking in depth. Many agree that it contains graphic scenes and disturbing content, making it suitable primarily for older teens due to its intensity and themes.

  • intense content
  • mixed reactions
  • graphic scenes
  • suitable for older teens
  • lack of plot
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What's the Story?

An American exchange student (Sarah Michelle Gellar as Karen) in Japan is sent out as a substitute for the caregiver of a woman suffering from some dementia. The woman is an American, living with her son and daughter-in-law, and with a daughter living nearby. It turns out that the house was once the site of great rage and anguish, giving rise to a curse that attacks anyone who enters.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 16 ):
Kids say ( 64 ):

THE GRUDGE is one of those "Don't go into the house" movies, a remake of a popular Japanese horror film by Takashi Shimizu, the writer/director of the original. Shimizu makes good use of shifts in time to pull us into what little story there is. The usual ghost activities (messing up the house, stalking people) are updated a little bit. These ghosts can call a cell phone and get from the lobby to the 16th floor very quickly. There are some creepy images and gotcha scares, but nothing can disguise the fact that this is just a "who gets it next and how does he get it" movie. Too much of it is familiar, though, from the mysteriously feral child to the backwards-crab-crawling guy looking horrified at some looming presence. You know if a bloody jaw with teeth shows up, eventually we're going to have to find out where it came from.

Indeed, the biggest problem with the film is that, like many American remakes, it feels it has to explain too much. We get a helpful little ghost re-enactment of the whole story. Horror movies are much more horrifying when they leave the explanation to that part of our imagination where our own deepest fears lie, so that each of us can feel personally unsettled right where we live.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the enduring appeal of ghost stories and their own views on whether strong emotions can continue to "occupy" a place. They might also want to find out more about efforts to investigate real-life reports of ghosts and curses.

  • This was a remake of a Japanese film, made by the same director. Why do you think the movie was remade, and what would be the challenges in not only remaking a movie, but also remaking a movie that you, the director, have already made?

  • A trope of the "haunted house" horror movie is that the characters, unlike anyone else with the least bit of common sense, don't flee the house posthaste after the first scary moment, but instead choose to investigate further. Why do horror movie writers allow their characters to have such poor judgment?

Movie Details

  • In theaters : October 22, 2004
  • On DVD or streaming : February 1, 2005
  • Cast : Jason Behr , Sarah Michelle Gellar , William Mapother
  • Director : Takashi Shimizu
  • Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
  • Studio : Columbia Tristar
  • Genre : Horror
  • Run time : 96 minutes
  • MPAA rating : PG-13
  • MPAA explanation : mature thematic material, disturbing images/terror/violence, and some sensuality
  • Last updated : November 6, 2025

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