Parents' Guide to The Hand That Rocks the Cradle

Movie R 1992 110 minutes
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Andrea Beach By Andrea Beach , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Disturbing 1990s thriller has violence, sexual assault.

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age 15+

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What's the Story?

In THE HAND THAT ROCKS THE CRADLE, Claire (Annabella Sciorra) and Michael (Matt McCoy) Bartel decide to hire a nanny for their daughter, Emma (Madeline Zima), and her new baby brother, Joey. It seems too good to be true when the perfect candidate, Peyton (Rebecca DeMornay), suddenly appears with all the right answers. Everything seems to be working out great, but odd things start to happen that make Claire and Michael suspicious and mistrustful of themselves—and each other. Is Solomon (Ernie Hudson), the handyman they recently hired, to blame? Things come to a head when family friend Marlene (Julianne Moore) starts digging into Peyton's past.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
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Kids say ( 1 ):

The strong cast and script take a story that could easily feel like cheap exploitation and raise it up enough to be a solid choice for adults and older teens who enjoy squirming as the tension builds. In The Hand That Rocks the Cradle, director Curtis Hanson effectively racks up the suspense, even when viewers are fully aware of everything that's going on. Hanson seems to know that the real drama is in watching well-developed characters respond to both everyday and highly unusual situations.

Unfortunately, all the tension and suspense in this psychological thriller build to the only ending Hollywood seems capable of coming up with: violent deaths and a big fight scene. Still, this popular 1990s movie has plenty to offer, and it certainly made an impact on the genre, with DeMornay's eerie, unhinged central performance proving particularly memorable.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about violence in The Hand That Rocks the Cradle. Did any of it feel too much, or did it add to the story? Why do you think so many movies end with a big fight scene?

  • The movie shows a character being sexually assaulted during a physical exam. Do you think there's more awareness about patient safety now? What might you do if you or someone you know felt uncomfortable or was assaulted during a medical procedure?

  • What are some of your favorite thrillers? How does this one compare? What are some of the cliches of the thriller genre that you noticed while watching this movie?

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