
The Hating Game
By Sandie Angulo Chen,
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Chemistry between charming leads sells steamy romcom.

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What's the Story?
Based on author Sally Thorne's best-selling romance novel debut, THE HATING GAME is an enemies-to-lovers story about two Manhattan publishers' assistants -- Lucy Hutton (Lucy Hale) and Joshua Templeman (Austin Stowell) -- who can't stand each other (at first). They work for publishing companies that are forced to merge. Lucy is the artsy, overly generous assistant to the literary, art-driven Helen (Sakina Jaffrey), and Joshua is the intimidating, type-A assistant to commercially driven chauvinist Bexley (Corbin Bernsen). When the bosses announce they're creating a singular managing editor position, both Lucy and Josh announce their intention to apply -- and secure -- the job. As their rivalry ramps up, the two realize their interactions are filled with sexual tension.
Is It Any Good?
Attractive stars and a classic romance-novel device make this adaptation come alive with swoon-worthy chemistry and surprisingly good comic timing. Considering the popularity of Thorne's novel on social media, it seemed destined to reach the big screen. Director Peter Hutchings, working from an adapted script by Christina Mengert, captures and improves upon aspects of the source material. The story no longer has a nameless setting (the Australian Thorne purposely wrote it in a way that let readers imagine any big English-speaking city in the world) but is located in Manhattan's intense publishing world, where mergers are commonplace and competing interests between literary/prestige houses and commercial/airport-paperback titles are believable. And Hale and Stowell's chemistry does the book more than justice, cranking up their characters' unresolved sexual tension. The backstory about Lucy's close relationship to her strawberry-farmer parents isn't as well fleshed out as Josh's third-act reveal about his dysfunctional family dynamics, but there's enough to endear audiences to her plight as a beautiful-but-quirky aspiring editor.
The romance works not only because of the actors but also because the "enemies to lovers" storyline, while well worn, is more fun than, say, an angst-filled love triangle or best friends being scared to take the next step. This is the sort of romcom for fans of Darcy and Lizzie, You've Got Mail, or any number of other stories where the characters' initial dislike is so obviously threaded with attraction. Familiarity with the source book isn't necessary but will add enjoyment to hearing specific lines (like "Watching you pretend to hate the nickname is the best part of my day" or "Hating someone feels disturbingly similar to being in love with them") and watching sequences that are nearly identical to book passages. Bernsen and Jaffrey successfully chew the scenery as bickering bosses who can't agree on anything -- including what makes a good assistant -- with Bernsen perfectly embodying a sexist, golfing, elitist executive. The catchy, pop-heavy soundtrack prominently features Angelina Jordan's "Mercy," two Dagny tracks, and the ballad "This Is How You Fall in Love" by Jeremy Zucker and Chelsea Cutler. While it's not perfect, the leads make The Hating Game a winning romcom, particularly for the love story's existing followers.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the popularity of the "hate to love" storyline in romances. Why is it so compelling in books and movies? What are your favorite examples of the subgenre? Is it a realistic take on how relationships work?
How does The Hating Game depict sexual relationships? How is sex portrayed differently when the characters are in their 20s than when they're underage?
In what ways do Lucy and Josh help each other? What do you think about the way the Templeton family treats Josh? Should parents only be proud of their kids if they pursue certain careers?
Discuss how the movie focuses almost singularly on workplace relationships. Do Lucy and Josh have non-work friends? Does the movie pass the Bechdel Test?
How does the movie show the importance of honest communication?
Movie Details
- In theaters: December 10, 2021
- On DVD or streaming: December 10, 2021
- Cast: Lucy Hale , Austin Stowell , Corbin Bernsen
- Director: Peter Hutchings
- Inclusion Information: Female actors
- Studio: Vertical Entertainment
- Genre: Romance
- Topics: Book Characters
- Character Strengths: Communication , Integrity
- Run time: 102 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: some sexual content and language
- Last updated: October 8, 2022
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