Parents' Guide to The Loved Ones

Movie 2012 R 84 minutes
The Loved Ones movie poster: Young White woman in pink dress holding a drill, wearing a paper crown, intense expression

Common Sense Media Review

Kat Halstead By Kat Halstead , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

Strong violence, dark humor, sex, drugs in teen prom horror.

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What's the Story?

In THE LOVED ONES, high school student Lola (Robin McLeavy) plucks up the courage to ask her crush Brent (Xavier Samuel) to prom. When Brent turns her down because he's already going with his girlfriend, Lola hatches a plot with her doting father (John Brumpton) to kidnap Brent and stage her own special evening, where she's determined to have a bloody good time.

Is It Any Good?

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This debut feature film from Australian director Sean Byrne is chaotic, intense, and, amid the bloodshed, boldly unique. There are aspects of The Loved Ones that certainly lean into torture porn territory, but it flips gender roles on their heads, casting a teen girl as the antagonist, rather than the victim. McLeavy is gloriously unhinged as that central character—a girl who's been turned down one too many times and decides to take her humiliation out on those who don't reciprocate her feelings. She's edgy and unpredictable and takes a maniacal but childish pleasure in her victims' pain. Don't be fooled by the bright pink dress and shiny disco ball on the ceiling, though: there's a Texas Chainsaw Massacre edge to this family as they sit around the table, a teen boy strapped to a chair and a mother figure strangely unresponsive. The less said about the incestuous undertones the better, but this is a creepily dysfunctional house to rival some of the horror greats. The film is played pretty straight, but there's a dark humor amid the almost indulgent displays of violence, which will no doubt appeal to many genre fans. The movie definitely marked Byrne as one to watch back in 2009, and his follow-ups, The Devil's Candy and Dangerous Animals haven't disappointed.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the way The Loved Ones flips a familiar horror trope on its head. What impact did it have to make the teen girl the antagonist and the teen boy the victim? Why is it important to call out gender stereotypes in horror films and other movies?

  • Discuss the level of violence in the movie. Did you feel it was too much or did it feel necessary to the plot? Is there a point in horror films when they become so violent they lose their impact or start to become humorous? Why are horror and comedy so often linked together?

  • How were sex and relationships portrayed in the movie? Were they shown affectionately? Respectful? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.

  • Were drinking, smoking, or drug use glamorized here? Were there realistic consequences for their use? Why does that matter?

  • What's the appeal of horror movies? Why do people sometimes enjoy being scared?

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