Parents' Guide to The Lovely Bones

Movie 2010 PG-13 135 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

S. Jhoanna Robledo By S. Jhoanna Robledo , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Haunting mystery-drama examines a child's murder.

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Why Age 16+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 26 parent reviews

Parents say that the film offers a mix of reactions, ranging from deep appreciation for its powerful themes and beautiful storytelling to harsh criticism for its slow pacing and disturbing content. Many reviews emphasize that while it can be a valuable conversation starter about serious topics for teens, its heavy themes and emotional intensitymake it unsuitable for younger children.

  • emotional intensity
  • mixed reactions
  • suitable for teens
  • powerful themes
  • disturbing content
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age 13+

Based on 96 kid reviews

Kids say the film is both a deeply emotional and unsettling experience that highlights the dangers of trusting strangers, making it suitable primarily for mature audiences. While many found the storytelling and performances powerful, parents are cautioned to consider their child's maturity level before allowing them to view its intense themes surrounding murder, grief, and trauma, often feeling that it's more appropriate for those aged 13 and up.

  • emotional impact
  • intense themes
  • caution for young viewers
  • mature content
  • strong performances
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What's the Story?

Fourteen-year-old Susie Salmon (Saoirse Ronan) has her whole life ahead of her -- filled, hopefully, with boys, a photographable world, and family. Only she doesn't. When a neighbor (Stanley Tucci) lures her to a bunker, she's murdered, which sends her soul in limbo to watch those she's left behind. Her mother (Rachel Weisz), is so shattered that she has to flee; her father (Mark Wahlberg) grows obsessed. Only one thing will set them all free: The capture of Susie's murderer, who continues to go about his days, trying to keep a lid on his monstrous urges.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 26 ):
Kids say ( 96 ):

As Susie, Ronan is infinitely watchable: She's compelling every time she's on screen. Her sadness plumbs depths; her joy soars. And when it's clear that she's been hurt, the impact is enormous. Losing her is palpable, and that's critical, considering that she's the story's pivot point. Wahlberg and Weisz are strong, too, though perhaps not as gripping, as is Rose McIver as Susie's younger sister. But Tucci: Though terrifying, he tragically plays to type. You can spot his child molester a mile away.

THE LOVELY BONES loses its way when it spends too much time in a place where director Peter Jackson is clearly comfortable: the in-between (the place between Heaven and Earth). Painted with visually arresting CG effects, this place is a sight to behold, a lyrical middle earth. But Jackson lingers there way too long, slowing down the movie's pace. Unfortunately that comes at the expense of the family's unraveling, which seems painted in over-broad stroke.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the movie's messages. Do the violence and intense subject matter make it harder to see the positive take-aways, or do they come through?

  • How does the impact of the violence in a movie like this compare to that of an action/sci-fi movie? Which affects you more? Why?

  • Talk about the events that lead up to Susie's murder. What lessons can be gleaned from the tragedy? Why is Susie stuck in the in-between?

  • How did Susie's death affect everyone, including herself? Do these reactions seem believable? How does everyone find peace?

Movie Details

  • In theaters : January 15, 2010
  • On DVD or streaming : April 20, 2010
  • Cast : Mark Wahlberg , Rachel Weisz , Saoirse Ronan
  • Director : Peter Jackson
  • Studio : Paramount Pictures
  • Genre : Drama
  • Run time : 135 minutes
  • MPAA rating : PG-13
  • MPAA explanation : mature thematic material involving disturbing violent content and images, and some language
  • Last updated : March 14, 2020

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