The Red Pill

Movie review by
Barbara Shulgas..., Common Sense Media
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Unbalanced docu about men's rights movement.
  • NR
  • 2017
  • 117 minutes

Parents say

age 13+
Based on 7 reviews

Kids say

age 9+
Based on 3 reviews

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Women aren't disadvantaged citizens in American society, even though they are paid less money for doing the same jobs as men, don't run the major corporations in America, and have been barred traditionally from many kinds of jobs and careers. Men are the ones who deserve our pity and funding. Some women marry men for money and that is a "form of prostitution."

Positive Role Models & Representations

Filmmaker Cassie Jaye appears as an interviewer and commentator as she rejects her previous self-labeling as a feminist, discarding it in the face of arguments put forth by the sympathetic men's rights advocates she meets. 

Violence

Domestic violence perpetrated by and against men are both discussed. It's claimed that nearly as many men are battered by their female partners as women are battered by males. Men's rights advocates complain that funding goes to create public shelters for female victims but not for males who are equally battered. Those advocates further claim that the fact that men statistically die younger than women, and that more men are arrested, convicted, imprisoned, and executed proves that men are discriminated against. Supposedly in response to women advocating violence against men, a website suggests to readers that October be "Bash a Violent Bitch Month," a supposed satirical response to women who hit men. Another quote: "A man hitting you back after you have assaulted him does not make you a victim of domestic violence. It makes you a recipient of justice."

Sex

Women are accused of tricking men into impregnating them. Paternity fraud -- claiming the wrong man is a biological father and extracting child support improperly -- is discussed at length, suggesting that it's a widespread epidemic. Female sexual assault against men is discussed as if it were commonplace and as physically and psychologically traumatizing as violent forced penetration by a man against a woman.

Language

"F--k," "s--t," "bitch," "femi-Nazi," and "scum."
 

Consumerism
Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Many domestic violence incidents are fueled by drug or alcohol use.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that in The Red Pill, documentary maker Cassie Jaye presents men's rights movement positions, interviewing movement leaders who believe that women aren't disadvantaged in society, but rather that men are the real victims of discrimination. They admit that women are paid less than men for equal work but complain that men die younger. Movement advocates state that men are treated unfairly to the degree that more of them commit suicide, and that more are arrested, imprisoned, and executed. They argue that while male-on-female violence gets all the attention, many men are sexually assaulted by women, and that women perpetrate almost as much domestic violence against men as the other way around. Expect to hear "f--k," "s--t," and "bitch," and to hear stories about battered men. Angry encounters between protesters and men's rights movement proponents are shown.  

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byJane D. February 26, 2018

Commonsenesemedia's Bias Review

For a site who claims to be unbiased, you certainly have not convinced me with the rating of The Red Pill. The point of the movie was not to attack feminism,... Continue reading
Parent Written byDane P. April 5, 2018

Must see for parents to watch together with teen children that need to get grasp of adult family & sexuality problems

That is a good film that may help prevent young men to enter toxic relationships or to understand realities of future marriage in legal and social terms. For... Continue reading
Teen, 15 years old Written byAustinCatnip March 19, 2018

Bias

This documentary is to educate. Whoever reviewed this film put a high rating of violence, drugs, and sex. I have watched this film 3 times and these things are... Continue reading
Teen, 16 years old Written byAn.Inspired.Activist April 7, 2018

This is an enlightening movie

This documentary was enlightening to the fact that there are issues with our society on a fundamental basis. Contrary to popular belief, it didn’t only accommod... Continue reading

What's the story?

The term THE RED PILL has been adopted by the men's rights movement (MRM) from the Matrix movie to signal the choice we have between seeing the world as it really is -- in this vision, a hotbed of discrimination against men -- or taking the blue pill, which supposedly offers the blissful but false view that ignores terrible prejudice causing men's widespread suffering. In Cassie Jaye's documentary about the MRM, the advocates and leaders she interviews give moving examples of real-life individual instances of unfairness visited on good men. Some men get a raw deal from the justice system while trying to get custody of their children, and other innocent guys can't get the authorities to recognize that they've been battered and sexually assaulted by women. These accounts seem to be valid individual examples of true injustices, but notably absent from the film are comparisons to equally disturbing stories from women about abusive men and social systems long rigged to favor men. The MRM leaders Jaye presents are generally soft-spoken, likable, and articulate espousers of the claim that men are disadvantaged in society. Friendly, warm, and polite, they cite statistics showing that men die younger than women, visit the doctor less frequently, become addicted more often, and are arrested, convicted, imprisoned, and executed more often. Their sentences are longer than convicted women's sentences, too. Plus, men now attend college less often than women, and those who attend graduate even less often than that. Jaye's response to most of this is a renunciation of her previous status as a "feminist."

Is it any good?

This documentary tries to masquerade as a serious and fair look at the men's rights movement, but it doesn't give all the necessary facts. The information that documentarian Cassie Jaye omits here speaks volumes. She seems to accept everything her men's rights advocates say in The Red Pill but doesn't question what they write when her camera isn't trained on them. 

While the men's rights interviewees are polite and soft-spoken, Jaye offers rabid "feminists" spewing venomous curse words in contrast. Jaye also fails to note that most of the MRM complaints are basically economic in nature and based on policies set by corporations run by men (95 percent of all CEOs) and legislative America (80 percent of all U.S. Congress members). She could easily have noted that published studies say that in 15 developed countries, men have died younger for two centuries, but, notably, since the 1970s -- when feminist ideas first began to take hold -- the gender gap in life expectancy has actually narrowed. Could feminism be good for men's health? While well-intentioned, this movie would be much better with the balanced information that's necessary to cover this complex and worthy subject of inquiry fairly.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about whether they see evidence in everyday life of the prejudices against men described in The Red Pill. Who gets paid the most at your or your parents' place of work: men or women? How many female bosses do you know?

  • What does it mean to be a feminist? Why do you think so many people misunderstand or misuse the term?

  • Do you think men face as much discrimination as women? How could you prove your point?

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