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The Stepfather

Horror remake has more tension than blood.
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  • Rated: PG-13
  • Genre: Horror
  • Release Year: 2009
  • Running Time: 101 minutes

What parents need to know

Positive messages

You could argue that the movie has a message about family sticking together, but any real positive content is lost amid the violence and tension.

Positive role models

Although the film features a character who stresses the importance of family above all, he happens to be a psychotic killer. On the brighter side, the teen hero is a steadfast young man trying to cope with his family's divorce and his own reactions to it.


Three bloodless murders take place on screen (the victims are thrown down stairs, suffocate, and drown). Several dead bodies, including three children, are seen in a killer's wake. Also beatings, fighting, chases, a knife attack, falls, and a stabbing with a shard of mirror to the neck, with some blood.


Some swimsuit-clad kissing and sounds of hanky-panky being initiated (implied sex). Plenty of skimpy outfits; one female character spends the majority of the film in swimwear.


Some strong language, including "goddamn," "damn," "screwing," "ass," and the finger being given.

Not applicable
Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Characters drink beer, wine, and hard liquor. An older man offers a minor two shots of tequila in an attempt to bond. A sleeping pill is taken.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that this thriller/horror remake of 1987's The Stepfather has plenty of tension, scares, and violence, though most of it is relatively bloodless. Three murders take place on screen (as well as fighting, attacks, etc.), and several other dead bodies are shown. Characters talk a lot about how families move on after divorce and loss, and there's some sensuality (a lot of kissing and skimpy swimsuits), underage drinking, and salty language. A supporting character is in a committed same-sex relationship. Also, this review is for the rated, theatrical version. There are unrated versions available. 

What's the story?

A remake of the same-named 1987 cult classic (starring Lost's Terry O'Quinn), THE STEPFATHER follows David (Dylan Walsh), a man who finds broken families and insinuates himself into their lives in an effort to create a perfect, loving family. Unfortunately for the families he finds, deviations from his idea of "perfection" tend to result in him killing them and moving on to try again. The movie opens as he's leaving his latest failed attempt, only to make recent divorcee Susan (Sela Ward) his next target. Six months later, he's Susan's fiancee and is being introduced to her eldest son, Michael (Penn Badgley). As David tries frantically to keep his lies and tall tales from spinning out of control, Michael gets closer and closer to the truth ... and closer and closer to danger.

Is it any good?


The best thing about The Stepfather remake is still the central idea about a man trying to make the perfect family via a very unusual methodology. The second best is Walsh's performance, which veers between bland affability and ice-cold fury at the flick of a switch. Director Nelson McCormick (who previously remade another '80s chiller, Prom Night, far less notably) at least knows when to get out of the way of the story and his star and let them do the work.

Unfortunately, McCormick tries to have it both ways by keeping the scares in The Stepfather low-key and predictable (for example, Michael's younger siblings are ushered off-stage for thefilm's climax, kept ata distance from the peril and bloodshed) -- as if he were hedging his own bets. Badgley and co-star Amber Heard make a nice duo of slow-to-doubt teens, and Ward anchors the film with an optimism that turns to concern as the facade of her fiancee's perfection crumbles in the light of the facts. The Stepfather isn't incompetent, grimly clueless, or actively bad -- it's just unnecessary and more than a little unimpressive in the unique light of the original.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about how the violence in this movie compares to bloodier horror films like the Saw series. Do the different types of violence have different impact? Is one scarier than the other?

  • What are the challenges that real families face whenmoving on after divorce and loss? Is any of what the on-screen familygoes through relatable?

  • Why do you think Hollywood is so fond of remaking horror movies? Whatmotivates them?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:October 16, 2009
DVD/Streaming release date:February 9, 2010
Cast:Amber Heard, Dylan Walsh, Penn Badgley
Director:Nelson McCormick
Studio:Screen Gems
Run time:101 minutes
MPAA rating:PG-13
MPAA explanation:intense sequences of violence, disturbing images, mature thematic material and brief sensuality

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Adult Written bywonder dove May 22, 2012

Gotta say, good remake!

This film wasn't bad at all, a little cliche at some points but overall an edge-of-your-seat experience! Yes, it was pretty predictable on who was going to get it next, but it's still fun to kill time with. The acting was excellent, good actors (especially Amber Heard) and a very creepy-like atmosphere kept the story alive. Lots of flirting and kissing, girl shown in swimwear a lot, language is very minor (hardly any) and of course some violence but not much gore. Grab a friend (or your dog) and have fun watching!
What other families should know
Too much violence
Teen, 13 years old Written byXstry March 7, 2012

The stepfather

It is a very good movie. I´am 13 year´s old and it didn´t bother me but some young teens and kids may find some killings a little too violent and there is not any sex scene but there is nudity
What other families should know
Too much sex
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking
Teen, 15 years old Written bySlendyDaMan March 23, 2016

Tense and Creepy

This movie is not bloody. A man get's stabbed in the neck, but it is not overly graphic. This movie relies on tension and jump-scares. A serial killer killer kills plenty of people on screen, all of them contain serious jump-scares. Terror is played out in the last 15 minutes. Some language, no F-words. A couple makes out, no sex. A female is scarcely dressed for a while. People drink liquor, and a sleeping drug is used. Not for kids.
What other families should know
Too much violence
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking