Parents' Guide to The Stepfather

Movie PG-13 2009 101 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

James Rocchi By James Rocchi , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Horror remake has more tension than blood.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 14+

Based on 9 parent reviews

age 13+

Based on 25 kid reviews

Kids say this movie provides a suspenseful and tense experience, making it suitable for older teens, though it contains violence, implications of sex, and some language that makes it less appropriate for younger viewers. While many found it enjoyable and not overly gory, critiques mention its predictability and mixed feelings about its pacing and ending.

  • suspenseful experience
  • suitable for teens
  • contains violence
  • mixed reviews
  • predictable plot
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What's the Story?

A remake of the same-named 1987 cult classic (starring Lost's Terry O'Quinn), THE STEPFATHER follows David (Dylan Walsh), a man who finds broken families and insinuates himself into their lives in an effort to create a perfect, loving family. Unfortunately for the families he finds, deviations from his idea of "perfection" tend to result in him killing them and moving on to try again. The movie opens as he's leaving his latest failed attempt, only to make recent divorcee Susan (Sela Ward) his next target. Six months later, he's Susan's fiancee and is being introduced to her eldest son, Michael (Penn Badgley). As David tries frantically to keep his lies and tall tales from spinning out of control, Michael gets closer and closer to the truth ... and closer and closer to danger.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 9 ):
Kids say ( 25 ):

The best thing about The Stepfather remake is still the central idea about a man trying to make the perfect family via a very unusual methodology. The second best is Walsh's performance, which veers between bland affability and ice-cold fury at the flick of a switch. Director Nelson McCormick (who previously remade another '80s chiller, Prom Night, far less notably) at least knows when to get out of the way of the story and his star and let them do the work.

Unfortunately, McCormick tries to have it both ways by keeping the scares in The Stepfather low-key and predictable (for example, Michael's younger siblings are ushered off-stage for thefilm's climax, kept ata distance from the peril and bloodshed) -- as if he were hedging his own bets. Badgley and co-star Amber Heard make a nice duo of slow-to-doubt teens, and Ward anchors the film with an optimism that turns to concern as the facade of her fiancee's perfection crumbles in the light of the facts. The Stepfather isn't incompetent, grimly clueless, or actively bad -- it's just unnecessary and more than a little unimpressive in the unique light of the original.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how the violence in this movie compares to bloodier horror films like the Saw series. Do the different types of violence have different impact? Is one scarier than the other?

  • What are the challenges that real families face when moving on after divorce and loss? Is any of what the on-screen family goes through relatable?

  • Why do you think Hollywood is so fond of remaking horror movies? Whatmotivates them?

Movie Details

  • In theaters : October 16, 2009
  • On DVD or streaming : February 9, 2010
  • Cast : Amber Heard , Dylan Walsh , Penn Badgley
  • Director : Nelson McCormick
  • Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s) , Bisexual Movie Actor(s)
  • Studio : Screen Gems
  • Genre : Horror
  • Run time : 101 minutes
  • MPAA rating : PG-13
  • MPAA explanation : intense sequences of violence, disturbing images, mature thematic material and brief sensuality
  • Last updated : October 9, 2025

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