Parents' Guide to The Wrestler

Movie R 2008 105 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

James Rocchi By James Rocchi , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 18+

Brilliant drama about rough redemption is for adults only.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 18+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 16+

Based on 6 parent reviews

age 14+

Based on 10 kid reviews

Kids say the film features a gritty and emotional portrayal of a wrestler's life that some viewers found depressing, while others appreciated its depth and strong performances, particularly from Mickey Rourke. However, many reviews noted the graphic violence, sexual content, and heavy themes, leading to mixed recommendations regarding its appropriateness for younger audiences.

  • gritty portrayal
  • strong performances
  • graphic content
  • emotional depth
  • mixed recommendations
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What's the Story?

In THE WRESTLER, Mickey Rourke plays professional wrestler Randy "The Ram" Robinson, an '80s star who's fallen from grace, reduced to working in a grocery store and taking part in low-rent, low-pay bouts on the weekends. Randy's life is changed when, after a match, he suffers a massive heart attack -- which means the end of his wrestling career. Randy reaches out to his estranged daughter, Stephanie (Evan Rachel Wood), and Cassidy, (Marisa Tomei), a stripper he feels a bond with. But he also feels the pull of the ring as the 20th anniversary of his greatest bout -- with a wrestler known as "The Ayatollah" -- promises both money and glory.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 6 ):
Kids say ( 10 ):

One of the best American films of 2008, The Wrestler is a brilliant, heartfelt, and unsentimental drama anchored by an incredible performance from Rourke as a washed-up athlete. Rourke's Randy relies on past glories, a part-time job at the grocery store, and massive doses of steroids to keep his bills paid and his career going. But his heart attack changes that, and Randy has to try to channel his charm and need for the spotlight into different areas of life, reaching out to Stephanie and Cassidy instead of playing to the crowd.

The Wrestler sounds intense, and it is, but it's also quite funny, thanks to the script by ex-Onion editor Rob Siegel. "I have two words to say to you, dude," a promoter pitches to Randy in anticipation of the approaching anniversary of his bout with theAyatollah: "Re. Match." Rourke is also charming, showing us a man who not only craves attention but also has a spark that makes people want to watch him, whether it's performing in the ring or dishing out cold cuts. Director Darren Aronofsky's previous films -- Pi, Requiem for a Dream, and The Fountain -- were all gorgeously shot and impressively smart. But with The Wrestler, he's working in much more emotional territory than he's explored before -- and clearly marking a new phase of his career with a film that combines the style and feel of modern European dramas with very American cultural concerns. Tough, rough, and impressive, The Wrestler's wounds and bruises hide a mighty heart.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk aboutthe nature of the "fake" violence depicted in the wrestling matches -- is it really "fake" if people are bleeding?

  • What's the appeal of professional wrestling to begin with? What makes it compelling entertainment?

  • Is it as popular now as it was in the '80s? Why or why not?

  • Discuss the similarities between Randy and Cassidy, who both make low pay selling their bodies (he wrestles, she strips). What effect does that have on their self-esteem? Their relationships with others?

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