Three Men and a Baby

Movie review by
M. Faust, Common Sense Media
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Dated '80s comedy has sex, stereotypes, cursing.
  • PG
  • 1987
  • 102 minutes

Parents say

age 13+
Based on 4 reviews

Kids say

age 11+
Based on 1 review

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

The entire premise of the movie rests on the assumption that women are somehow natural parents while men must learn. The bachelors sleep around; the baby (abandoned by its mother) was the product of one such fling. 

Positive Role Models & Representations

The three lead characters sleep around, have one-night stands; the baby is from one of these flings. 

Violence

Some violence as the lead characters unknowingly have possession of a package of heroin. Guns pulled. Bad guys knocked over by large pipes on a construction site. Car chase. 

Sex

The opening scenes serve to establish that the three men are single men who have a lot of casual sex and one-night stands. The baby that shows up on their doorstep is the result of one of these flings. Sexual insinuation -- woman hints at the size of her boyfriend's penis. Dr. Ruth shown on television talking about women having orgasms. 

Language

Profanity regularly used throughout the movie. "Bulls--t," "s--t," "d--khead," "crap," "hell," damn," "goddamn," "for Christ's sake." Some sexual innuendo and insinuation. 

Consumerism
Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

The B-story of the movie revolves around one of the lead characters being asked to accept a mystery package for one of his friends -- the package is revealed to be filled with baggies of heroin. When mobsters arrive at their apartment, one of the lead characters hides the heroin in the lining of the baby's diaper. Champagne, wine, and martini drinking at a birthday party -- some drunken behavior. 

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Three Men and a Baby is a 1987 movie in which three devil-may-care bachelors must learn to take care of a baby left on their doorstep. The movie opens with a montage of women arriving at and leaving the bachelor pad shared by the three main characters, with the clear implication that they're not there to deliver cookies. The bachelors sleep around, talk of the sex they've had or are having with women. The baby (abandoned by its mother) was the product of one such fling. Sexual insinuation -- woman hints at the size of her boyfriend's penis. Dr. Ruth shown on television talking about women having orgasms. In relation to a heroin-smuggling subplot, some violence regarding a drug dealer is discussed but not seen. It's implied that the heroes and baby are in danger. The entire premise of the movie rests on the assumption that women are somehow natural parents while men must learn. Some drinking and drunkenness -- especially at a party thrown in the apartment the three men share. Profanity throughout the movie including "bulls--t," "s--t," and "d--khead." 

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Adult Written byLauren W. June 24, 2017

Warning! BAD LANGUAGE

I decided to watch this movie with my children based on the common sense media review that listed language as not applicable! There was swearing from beginning... Continue reading
Adult Written byTheweirdest46 February 25, 2019

Paige

This movie is great! You should watch it! It has a lot of cursing in it though. If your kids are 7 or younger you shouldn't watch it.
Kid, 12 years old March 21, 2020

Great movie for mature viewers

Good movie! They get a package with drugs delivered to the wrong family, they do not use them, then they get the people who sent them caught. They receive some... Continue reading

What's the story?

Three swinging bachelors deal with and learn to love an infant left on their doorstep in THREE MEN AND A BABY. A gorgeous apartment on Manhattan's Upper West Side is shared by three bachelors, architect Peter (Tom Selleck), actor Jack (Ted Danson) and comic book artist Michael (Steve Guttenberg). Their world is turned upside down when they find baby Mary in a basket at their door. She has been left there for Jack by her mother, who had a fling with him a year earlier. Because Jack is out of town shooting a movie, Peter and Michael try to learn about parenting as quickly as possible. While they think they will be happy to hand the task over to Jack when he returns, they find that they have enjoyed being fathers. When Mary's mother returns to reclaim the baby, all three men are unwilling to go back to their old lives without Mary.

Is it any good?

A huge hit when it was first released in 1987, Three Men and a Baby really doesn't get as many laughs as it should from its premise. In 1987, Selleck, Danson and Guttenberg were major stars, and familiarity with their usual personas (Danson is simply playing a variant on his character from television show Cheers) was a major factor in the film's success. But the film hasn't aged very well. The time-consuming subplot pitting the three dads against a heroin smuggling ring completely clashes with the rest of the film. Nor does Leonard Nimoy's flat direction add anything.

Parents may enjoy watching these three self-confident guys crumble when faced with the demands of childcare, and kids could laugh at their unsuccessful attempts to keep a clean diaper on baby Mary, but there are too few such moments spread out over the course of the film. Surprisingly, the sequel Three Men and a Little Lady is a bit better.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about this movie's premise. Do you think it is correct -- men must learn to parent and women are born knowing how? Did you question that assumption while watching the film? How do such assumptions and premises affect viewers' perceptions?

  • How does the movie's premise -- and the assumptions behind the premise -- reflect the time when the movie was released? 

  • What do you think has changed (if anything) in the years since this movie was released in terms of parenting, sex, relationships? 

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