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We Were Soldiers

Movie review by
Nell Minow, Common Sense Media
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One of the most violent movies ever released.
  • R
  • 2002
  • 138 minutes
Popular with kidsParents recommend

Parents say

age 17+
Based on 10 reviews

Kids say

age 15+
Based on 16 reviews

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.


Extreme, vivid, graphic, and relentless battle violence




Some strong language

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking


What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this is one of the most brutally violent movies ever released, with up-close, graphic, and relentless violence and the deaths of many characters. There is some strong language and a mild sexual situation.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byDr3w November 9, 2011

Not For Kids

Here's the thing: films like this are appropriate for their intended audience, which is adults. They are not for children of any age and not even most ol... Continue reading
Parent of a 17 year old Written bymickeym_k August 17, 2013

Very realistic showing of the battle and the home front.

We watched this movie on the advice of my uncle, who joined up with this military unit shortly after the battle this movie portrays. He feels it is one of the m... Continue reading
Teen, 15 years old Written byActionmoviefan101 November 29, 2011

Very good but violent

Well, first off, this is a war movie, so you should expect violence and language to be present, and for the most part, considering the amount of violence in thi... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written byCedricDoodlehopper January 4, 2011

Very Violent Film

This is a very violent film. While not as violent as Platoon, it shows people being bayonetted, shot, stabbed, and burned alive. One man is disfigured by an i... Continue reading

What's the story?

WE WERE SOLDIERS is based on the book by Lt. Colonel Harold G. Moore, a devout Catholic who is as devoted a commander as he is a father. Moore was asked to develop the "air cavalry," a system for using helicopters in combat. He led the Americans into their first major engagement in Viet Nam. They were hopelessly outmanned, with just 400 soldiers to 2000 Vietnamese. They fought bravely and did their best to look out for each other. And most of them were killed or wounded. Mel Gibson, as Moore, is the man we would all want to lead us into battle, a true hero who promises his men that he will always be the first on the field and the last to leave, and that men may die, but none will be left behind. He trains his men to learn the tasks of the man above and teach their own tasks to the man below, and directs them, above all, to take care of each other, he gives them a purpose and a dignity that, sadly, the conflict they were sent to fight and the politicians who sent them there never could.

Is it any good?

We Were Soldiers spends half an hour making us care about each of the characters and the rest of the movie blowing them up. There have been thousands of war movies, and dozens of movies about the Viet Nam war, but this is one of the few to truly honor the men who fought and the women they loved. This is not a movie about politicians (though there are some digs at those who sent these men into battle without adequate resources) and it is not a movie about whether the US involvement stemmed from imperialism or a commitment to freedom. This is a movie about those who put their lives on the line not for their country but for each other.

The movie has some weaknesses that, in context, work very well. The battle action is often hard to follow, though perhaps that is a good way to replicate the relentlessness and disorientation of war. The characters and dialogue are clichéd, even corny. But in the context of the movie, they become paradigms. We Were Soldiers also takes the unusual step of treating the soldiers on the other side with dignity as well, making them human beings with ability, honor – and wives left behind to mourn them.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how we decide to risk American lives in a war, and how, knowing that lives will be lost, we prepare and motivate our armed forces. They may want to discuss their own views on the war in Viet Nam and the treatment of veterans.

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