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What Men Want
By Joyce Slaton,
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Henson shines in mature, formulaic comedy.

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What's the Story?
At the sports agency she works at, Ali Davis (Taraji P. Henson) is surrounded by male colleagues all day long -- yet a crushing career blow has convinced her that she doesn't understand WHAT MEN WANT. But when a bonk on the head and a session with a mysterious, psychedelic tea-bearing psychic named Sister (a game and wild-eyed Erykah Badu) coincide, Ali suddenly gains the ability to hear men's private thoughts. Now that she knows exactly what the men in her life are thinking, she hopes to use her new powers to sign hot new NBA draft pick Jamal Barry (Shane Paul McGhie), despite meddling from his temperamental father, Joe (Tracy Morgan), and secure the partnership that's rightfully hers.
Is It Any Good?
Viewers will know right away where this formulaic comedy is headed, but that doesn't mean there aren't pleasures to be found along the way. Chief among them: Henson knows her way around a punchline, and it's a kick to see her cast in a comedic role. Dressed in her trademark no-nonsense jackets and suits, her Ali is enviously confident in the man's world of the upscale Atlanta sports agency she works for -- that is, until she's passed over for a partnership and told by her just-shy-of-contemptuous boss that she doesn't "connect well with men" and should "stay in her own lane." Anyone who's ever seen a sisters-are-doing-it-for-themselves female revenge fantasy knows what's coming next: comeuppance for those who done her wrong -- and, after some forgivable missteps, ultimate triumph.
The setup is, of course, catnip for the type of viewer this movie clearly hopes to attract: girlfriend groups who will cheer as Ali rises to the top, thanks to her trademark mix of savvy and pluck, and the (thankfully temporary) powers she gains from Sister. What Men Want hits all the beats you expect: First, Ali has to learn how to balance power and sensitivity at work, then, to show she sincerely cares about her (clumsily characterized) girlfriend group and (shoehorned-in) love interest, Will (Aldis Hodge). The emotional moments aren't earned, but they pass by quickly enough that viewers can ignore them in favor of this movie's real, irritatingly rare treat: watching a smart, confident woman in her 40s get what's coming to her, in all the best ways. As an icon that fed-up women can connect to, Henson is perfect, even if this particular movie isn't.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how drinking, drug use, and other over-the-top behavior are depicted in What Men Want. Is the film glamorizing any of this? Do characters face realistic consequences for their actions? Why does that matter?
Do you consider any of the characters role models? Why or why not? Do they defy any stereotypes? If so, how?
How does Ali demonstrate empathy and communication in this movie? Why are these important character strengths?
How does this movie compare to the original take on the premise, What Women Want? Does either film undermine stereotypes? Support them?
Movie Details
- In theaters: February 8, 2019
- On DVD or streaming: May 7, 2019
- Cast: Taraji P. Henson , Wendi McLendon-Covey , Brian Bosworth
- Director: Adam Shankman
- Inclusion Information: Gay directors, Female actors, Black actors
- Studio: Paramount Pictures
- Genre: Comedy
- Character Strengths: Communication , Empathy
- Run time: 117 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: language and sexual content throughout, and some drug material
- Last updated: March 31, 2022
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