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What Women Want

Movie review by
Nell Minow, Common Sense Media
What Women Want Movie Poster Image
Gibson keeps this movie afloat.
  • PG-13
  • 2000
  • 127 minutes

Parents say

age 15+
Based on 2 reviews

Kids say

age 13+
Based on 7 reviews

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.


Comic peril, suicidal character.


Sexual references and situations, one-night stands, discussion of teen sex.


Some strong language.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Character drinks a lot, character smokes pot when stressed.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this movie has stronger language than indicated by the previews. Nick manipulates the waitress into having sex with him by reading her thoughts. He's apalled to hear her thoughts in bed and find out what a poor lover he is. So he listens to her thoughts and is able to give her an extraordinary experience which leaves her deeply touched. He then forgets all about her until she confronts him a week later. He take the only out he can think of to explain why he had not called her -- he tells her that he's gay.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byMovieMan26 October 10, 2010

Really outstanding romcom, even if you don't like romcoms

I am not a fan of romantic comedies (romcoms), but this one really hit home. It was funny, fresh, and original. Parents: there is a lot of really strong and exp... Continue reading
Adult Written bymmhj78 April 9, 2008
Teen, 13 years old Written bybooklover1 March 24, 2010
Kid, 9 years old July 18, 2011


MovieMan26, It's rated PG-13 for those reasons.

What's the story?

WHAT WOMEN WANT stars Mel Gibson as Nick Marshall, a Chicago ad exec who is successful at work and with the ladies, whom he wheedles and charms but never really thinks about. Nick is promoted to Creative Director, and gets a new boss, Darcy Maguire (Helen Hunt). The ad agency needs to appeal to women consumers, so Darcy hands out products for the staff to explore, and Nick does his best, experimenting with mascara, leg wax, nail polish, and exfoliater. But an accidental near-electrocution leaves him with a new power -- the ability to hear women's thoughts. At first horrified, Nick realizes that there are some real advantages to being the only straight man in the world who knows how women think. He uses it to manipulate women, including Darcy and a pretty coffee shop waitress (Marisa Tomei). But it turns out that women do not think about Nick the way that he thought they did, and he is forced to think about himself in a new way. Nick has never listened to women before, but now he can't help it. He sees the damage that he has done, and he begins to correct it. And of course he begins to fall in love with Darcy and to connect to his 15-year-old daughter.

Is it any good?

Mel Gibson shows us just what women want in his first-ever romantic comedy -- we want Mel Gibson, who is sheer heaven in this movie. Whether he's dancing to Frank Sinatra in his apartment, watching his daughter try on prom dresses, or just reacting to snippets of thoughts he hears from girls, women, and even female dogs as he walks down the street, he's delightful. He has the physical grace of a leading man and the timing and unselfconsciousness of a comic. The script sags in places, but Gibson keeps the movie floating in the clouds.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about whether it is hard for men and women to figure each other out, and how they can do better. They may also want to talk about the pressure Nick's 15-year-old daughter feels to have sex with her 18-year-old boyfriend and how she decides what to do about it. They should also talk about how a small act of kindness can be very important to someone who is coping with depression. (But make sure that children know that clinical depression is a serious illness that cannot be "cured" by a few kind words.)

Movie details

For kids who love romance and comedy

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