Yes Day

Movie review by
Jennifer Green, Common Sense Media
Yes Day Movie Poster Image
 Popular with kids
Book-based family comedy mixes silly fun, positive messages.
  • PG
  • 2021
  • 129 minutes

Parents say

age 8+
Based on 23 reviews

Kids say

age 6+
Based on 46 reviews

Did this review miss something on diversity?

Research shows a connection between kids' healthy self-esteem and positive, diverse representations in books, TV shows, and movies. Want to help us help them? Suggest a diversity update

We think this movie stands out for:

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Educational Value

Kids can learn to empathize with their parents and grasp why parents place limits and rules on their behavior. They can observe that kids and teens must also take responsibility for themselves and their own actions.

Positive Messages

Getting to do everything you want isn't always as fun as you might imagine. Family members take care of each other. Parents/caregivers usually have kids' best interests in mind when they set rules or aren't permissive. They'll often go to great lengths for kids' happiness and safety. It's important for kids and teens to be responsible for their choices. Communication is important among spouses and between parents/caregivers and kids. It helps foster empathy and understanding.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Allison is a strict but dedicated, caring mom. Carlos is caring but has harder time being authority figure at home -- that's his role at work. Teen Katie learns lesson about taking risks that her parents don't think she's ready for. Younger siblings Nando and Ellie find out that having the big party of your dreams can lead to stress, loss of control, destruction. Allison and Carlos say yes to some questionable choices (e.g., rolling windows down at car wash) in interests of Yes Day, but nothing truly dangerous. Torres family is bilingual; they switch comfortably between English and Spanish.

Violence & Scariness

Fierce water balloon fight/capture-the-flag competition. Carlos suffers indigestion after eating too much ice cream, falls out of a tree, is attacked by birds (sending him to hospital, where he's told he's fine). A woman drives an ambulance haphazardly on the freeway. A kid party gets out of control when foam explodes everywhere. Allison has a knock-down fight with another woman over a toy gorilla. Katie gets lost at a music festival.

Sexy Stuff

A teen's friend's cousin sets the younger girls up with two older boys. Carlos and Allison kiss on their wedding day and later in jail. Carlos and the kids demonstrate how to twerk.

Language

"Sucks," "wuss," "peeing," "poopy-pants," "God," "skeegy."

Consumerism

Magic Mountain, Mountain Dew, Annie's, Burning Man, Hometown Buffet, Ford. 

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Young people appear drunk or high at a music festival.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Yes Day, based on the book by author Amy Krouse Rosenthal and illustrator Tom Lichtenheld, is a fun family comedy with both improbable plot twists and positive messages about communication and empathy. Just be ready for your kids to want their own "yes day" after watching. Parents Allison (Jennifer Garner, reteaming here with her Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day director Miguel Arteta) and Carlos (Edgar Ramirez) suffer everything from indigestion and physical injury to jail time and a water-logged car and house over the course of the rule-free family day. But their kids also end the day feeling that their dose of freedom has maybe gone too far, allowing the film to send home the values of responsibility, natural consequences, and healthy limits. Their teenage daughter in particular (Jane the Virgin's Jenna Ortega) learns a scary lesson when she's left alone and loses her phone at a music festival, where a lot of the older concert-goers around her appear to be drunk or high. The younger kids, meanwhile, are surprised by how carelessly their friends treat their home and belongings. Language includes "sucks," "wuss," "peeing," "poopy-pants," "God," and "skeegy." The family in the film is bilingual, and parents and kids switch comfortably between English and Spanish.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written bybesmith91 March 13, 2021

Bad values

The kids are incredibly rude and disrespectful throughout the film, the teenage girl in particular always has a bad attitude. Early on the film the kids even de... Continue reading
Parent Written byBetsy M March 15, 2021

Fun family film!

Appropriate for all ages, elementary and up. I have two middle schoolers and we laughed our way through it. Light-hearted fun!
Kid, 11 years old March 16, 2021

Some bad behaviour but overall amazing movie

It is a great movie with some amazing actors but there is some bad behaviour which you wouldn't want younger children to copy.
Teen, 14 years old Written byouat.fans.2020 April 12, 2021
I found this movie to be so cheesy, and pretty unrealistic. I felt that conceptually it was only half there. There were definitely some scenes that could be rea... Continue reading

What's the story?

Allison Torres (Jennifer Garner) is always saying no to her three kids -- until one day the Torres family agrees to have a YES DAY. This involves parents agreeing to say yes to anything their kids want to do (with a few sensible ground rules). The concept, Allison and her husband, Carlos (Edgar Ramirez), are told, is that their kids will stop complaining about what they don't have and don't get to do on other days if they're given the occasional no-holds-barred day of fun and freedom. What Allison and Carlos aren't ready for is the wild day that their kids -- teen Katie (Jenna Ortega), tween Nando (Julian Lerner), and little sister Ellie (Everly Carganilla) -- have in store for them. Their yes day sends the Torres family across Los Angeles and into some unanticipated situations. But the family will find themselves more united -- and more understanding of one another's positions -- before the day is over.

Is it any good?

Parents can go along for the ride on this movie, which is sure to entertain younger kids and offer positive lessons for tweens and teens. Like Allison and Carlos, a lot of parents can probably relate to the feeling that they've lost their groove since they had kids, or that their kids have no idea who they were before they became parents. The film abbreviates that message for young viewers: Allison and Carlos didn't just have fun pre-parenthood, they jumped out of airplanes and scaled cliffs. The chaos of their "yes day" is similarly sketched in shorthand: The Torres family doesn't just say yes, they go nuts. Garner takes the cake in a couple of very physical scenes involving a high-stakes capture-the-flag challenge and a knock-down brawl at an amusement park. Ramirez balances her out as the family's accident-prone "good cop." Having him (and Garner) speak Spanish with the kids regularly adds a great touch that many viewers will appreciate.

Kids may find the Torres family's antics hilarious: Carlos' indigestion post-ice cream binge, a house filled with sudsy water and makeshift water slides, roller coasters, water balloon fights, and parent-free adventures. But at the end of the yes day, the kids also figure out that they really do want some boundaries ... and still ultimately need their parents. It's a message parents can get behind, and just in time for older viewers: No sane parent is going to let their new-ish family vehicle fill with soap and water at a car wash just for their kids' entertainment. The film seems to be suggesting that a healthier motto for parents and kids alike is "all things in moderation." Although the film doesn't take its own advice -- going overboard and eschewing any semblance of reality more often than not -- it does have worthy themes and entertainment value for families.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the concept of a "yes day." Has your family ever had one? How did it go? Was it worth it? If you haven't, does the movie make you want to have one? How could you make sure it was safe and fun for everyone?

  • If you've read the book, how does it compare with the movie?

  • Katie goes to the music festival with her friend against her parents' wishes and behind their backs. Why did she make that decision? Was it a good one? Have you ever done something without your parents' consent? How did you feel about it?

  • How does Yes Day show the value of communication and its role in promoting empathy? Why are those valuable character strengths?

Movie details

Our editors recommend

For kids who love to laugh

Character Strengths

Find more movies that help kids build character.

Themes & Topics

Browse titles with similar subject matter.

Common Sense Media's unbiased ratings are created by expert reviewers and aren't influenced by the product's creators or by any of our funders, affiliates, or partners.

See how we rate

Streaming options powered by JustWatch

About these links

Common Sense Media, a nonprofit organization, earns a small affiliate fee from Amazon or iTunes when you use our links to make a purchase. Thank you for your support.

Read more

Our ratings are based on child development best practices. We display the minimum age for which content is developmentally appropriate. The star rating reflects overall quality.

Learn how we rate