Parents' Guide to Boys Over Flowers

TV KBS , Netflix Drama 2009
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Common Sense Media Review

By Amanda Dyer , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Lighthearted Korean drama features bullying, gossip.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 15+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 12+

Based on 2 parent reviews

age 12+

Based on 2 kid reviews

What's the Story?

Korean drama BOYS OVER FLOWERS is a re-adaptation of the popular Japanese manga series by the same name. It follows the story of Geum Jan-di, a high schooler from a struggling family who is admitted into a prestigious private academy after saving the life of a student there. While attending, she makes enemies with the wealthiest group of bullies known as the Flower Four. Gu Jun-pyo, leader of the F4, makes it his mission to torture Jan-di. However, after witnessing her resilience Jun-pyo begins to see her in a different light.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 2 ):
Kids say ( 2 ):

This internationally recognized series is praised for its quirky and passionate lead. Geum Jan-di has a strong inclination for justice. Watching her persevere against her entitled upperclassmen is what makes Boys Over Flowers a surprisingly empowering series. However, as the show goes on Geum Jan-di gets more involved in the personal drama of the F4 and the moral of the series is lost. Although seeing clumsy Gu Jun-pyos' transition from a spoiled brat into a more considerate human being is entertaining, it is difficult to forgive and forget some of his past atrocities.

For younger teens beginning to explore complex relationship dynamics, the series may send mixed messages about dating and romance.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about bullying. Have your teens witnessed or experienced cyberbullying or more traditional bullying? In what different forms can this behavior present itself? What defenses can you use against it?

  • Characters are defined by their wealth and status in the series and rarely intermingle. Why do you believe there is this separation? Is it realistic?

  • Families can also talk about courtship. Gu Jun-pyo often pushes a relationship onto Jan-di without receiving her consent. What are some problems with this approach? What are some proper ways to court someone you're interested in?

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