Downton Abbey

TV review by
Carrie R. Wheadon, Common Sense Media
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Parents recommendPopular with kids
Absorbing costume series is perfect watch-together fare.

Parents say

age 13+
Based on 22 reviews

Kids say

age 12+
Based on 39 reviews

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this TV show.

Positive Messages

Bonds of family and friendship are tested repeatedly but generally stand strong; when push comes to shove, most characters have one another's back. Loyalty to Downton and its residents is strong. Themes include -- on one hand -- adultery, betrayal, manipulation, and revenge and -- on the other -- dealing with the inevitability of change, broadening your perspective/options, and learning to embrace new ideas.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Characters are humanly flawed but most are well meaning; most change over time, mellowing and/or becoming more open minded. Lord Grantham may resist change, but he's a good father and a good caretaker of his estate/staff. Cora will do anything to protect her daughters. Sisters Mary and Edith are horrible to each other, and both do what they can to sabotage each other's happiness (especially in early seasons). Sybil goes behind her father's back to participate in her forward-thinking political causes. Most of the servants take pride in their work and the family they work for, except for a few who work hard to cause chaos and pit their employers against each other.

Violence

A brief, unpleasant scene on the operating table -- fluid is pumped out of a man's heart. Another man's leg is shown covered in sores. A corpse lies in a bed and is dragged down a hallway. A couple of fist fights -- blood is drawn after one. A pregnant woman takes a fall and loses her baby (nothing is shown). The second season focuses more on World War I; some scenes take place in the trenches with active bombing, some injuries, and lots of tension -- as well as the aftermath (recovering from wounds, etc.). Some very sad deaths.

Sex

Passionate, clothed kissing on a bed leads to implied sex. Additional kissing between both opposite-sex and (rarely) same-sex couples. A footman and a duke talk about their secret affair, and the same footman makes advances toward another man and is rejected. Big drama occurs when a soldier finds out his injury will prevent him from having children. Some innuendo. An unmarried couple sneaks away for a secret tryst; birth control comes into play.

Language

Infrequent. One sister calls another a slut; a couple of uses of the word "bitch."

Consumerism
Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Servants smoke cigarettes often, and lords and dukes smoke cigars (accurate for the time period). Wine and spirits are served with dinner and after. A footman steals wine. Occasional drunkenness.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Downton Abbey is a popular BBC series with plenty of adult themes like sex, scandal, and intrigue. Sexual assault, thievery, blackmail, and sudden death are all are handled in very buttoned-up, Edwardian English fashion. When an unmarried woman sleeps with a male visitor, both are still completely clothed when the camera cuts away. Both opposite-sex and same-sex couples kiss. There are some sad, upsetting, and/or tense moments (a corpse is dragged down a hallway, a medical procedure is shown in detail, a woman dies in childbirth, a beloved character is raped), but overall Downton Abbey offers the typical costume drama experience, complete with backstabbing sisters (they can be really cruel), out-of-touch but usually well-meaning upper-class characters, and a few scheming servants amidst an otherwise loyal and steadfast house staff.

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User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byKKoff March 3, 2011

Could have used a heads up . . .

This really is a gorgeous period drama with all the twists and scheming you'd expect. The story is incredibly engaging and is beautifully cast.

However,... Continue reading
Adult Written byChloe Trujillo January 20, 2019

Spoilers, But There's A Rape Scene

This show does have a few scenes where you can tell they are going to have sex or discuss sex, but not too many. Common Sense Media, however, does not mention a... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written byTheAlice12 June 5, 2015

Downton Abbey= The best period drama on Tv!

This wonderful period drama piece set from 1912 to the 1920's is well written, full of plot twists and lovable characters. I'd say 12 and up will love... Continue reading
Kid, 12 years old May 29, 2020

Downton Abbey

Downton Abbey is a great, intriguing, interesting 20th century drama.
Violence: ••. People catch illnesses. People are heard screaming during childbirth. Many c... Continue reading

What's the story?

Beginning the day after the sinking of the Titanic and passing through World War I and beyond, this BBC series encompasses the drama of one upper-class English family, the sprawling DOWNTON ABBEY where they live, and the servants who maintain it. Lord (Hugh Bonneville) and Lady (Elizabeth McGovern) Grantham have three daughters -- Mary (Michelle Dockery), Edith (Laura Carmichael), and Sybil (Jessica Brown-Findlay) -- and a big problem when the cousin set to inherit Downton (and marry Mary) goes down with the Titanic. That leaves third cousin Matthew Crawley (Dan Stevens) -- a lawyer who's not accustomed to dressing in a tux for every dinner. When he arrives, he's sneered at by the Dowager Countess (the always-amazing Maggie Smith) but is eventually accepted as the estate's only hope. He may be Mary's as well. Downstairs, the loyal staff includes Carson the butler (Jim Carter) and ladies' maid Anna (Joanne Froggatt). But not all is sunny and loyal downstairs. Thomas (Rob James-Collier) the footman is always scheming and the new socialist chauffeur, Tom, is more than happy to drive Lady Sybil to all of her forward-thinking political causes.

Is it any good?

For fans of costume dramas, this Masterpiece Classic series (originally broadcast on the BBC in England) is a complete delight, even if it sometimes veers into melodrama. Attention to detail really draws viewers into the time period -- there's the sprawling estate, the classic cars, the first telephone, the newspapers ironed every morning, etc.. But of course it's the dresses and hats that really steal the show.

Interwoven stories are compelling both upstairs and down, and all the acting is good and occasionally superb -- Smith's sneering Dowager Countess takes relaying gossip to an art form. And sisters Mary and Edith really know how to torment each other. But for some viewers, the petty fighting and gossip might get a little tiresome, leaving characters like Mary harder to root for and the motivations of some, like the always-scheming Thomas the footman, a little hard to understand. But the lack of reflection and redemption doesn't make Downton Abbey any less compelling.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about Downton Abbey's time period. How were things changing for England and the world when the show first began? How did technology change life for both the upper and servant classes? How do the times change as the show goes on?

  • How could you find out more about the historical events that the series refers to/takes part in? How accurate do you think the show is, from a historical perspective?

  • What makes a show like this so appealing? Is it the characters? The setting? Do you think there's infinite potential in a series like this, or can the stories eventually run their course?

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