Frenemies

TV review by
Emily Ashby, Common Sense Media
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Tween-friendly movie lightly addresses bullying, popularity.
Popular with kids

Parents say

age 9+
Based on 5 reviews

Kids say

age 7+
Based on 18 reviews

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this TV show.

Educational Value

There's nothing intentionally educational about the content, but there are some positive take-aways about relationships, honesty, and respecting others' feelings.

Positive Messages

The movie's intended messages about individuality and friendship are great and hit their mark, but it takes some unsavory behavior to get there. Mean-girl bullying, the manipulation of people's feelings, and misguided ambition -- not to mention the fact that school serves more as a tool for social interactions than for learning. Bathroom humor includes farting (of the canine variety) and burping.

Positive Role Models & Representations

One plotline centers on the relationship between a teen diva and the guys she coerces into doing her homework for her by faking affection. Best friends turn on each other at the promise of a dream job, and teens mislead their friends and family about their true identities. Teens can't see past what they wish they had to appreciate what they do have. In the end, though, most make amends for their behavior and re-establish their friendships.

Violence & Scariness
Sexy Stuff

A couple of kisses and some flirting among teens.

Language

"Butt" is as racy as it gets.

Consumerism

The movie's cast members hail from starring and guest roles in many series from Disney and its ABC partners, so kids might take an interest in one or all of them after watching.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Frenemies paints an oversimplified picture of teen life and the complexity of its relationships, but the fact that it's headlined by multiple familiar faces from popular kids' shows like Shake It Up and A.N.T. Farm means it's bound to draw a young audience nonetheless. Content-wise, there's no reason kids can't tune in, and there are multiple opportunities to discuss responsible social relationships as they relate to popularity, bullying, and manipulating people's feelings. Ultimately kids won't miss out on the story's unmistakable positive messages about friendship, so there's some value to tuning in.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of an infant, 2, 3, 5, 6, and 11 year old Written byResponsibleParentOf9 December 30, 2012

Film was made with young adults in mind.

My wife and I watched this and agreed we would not show this to our kids until they turned 16 years old. For young adults only.
Parent of a 2, 4, 6, 7, and 9 year old Written byinformdmommy June 11, 2012

Good for Preteens

My 7 and 9 year old love this movie. But i will not let my younger ones wach it. I like how thire is no bad words and how it deals with issues that young teens... Continue reading
Teen, 15 years old Written bykirsten101 32 February 12, 2012

great

it tells your kids friends are always there and you,ll have fights but your friends
Teen, 16 years old Written byJayla970 January 14, 2012

Very Positive

This is a great movie that can teach people that, friendships aren't always easy to carry out, but you can solve any problem with a friend by your side.

What's the story?

FRENEMIES is the story of a group of classmates whose relationships endure ups and downs as outside factors cause besties to turn against each other. Nestled in a substory about a pop culture/social media website created by two of the characters, the movie follows three unique relationships through rough patches that threaten to turn friends into enemies. First up is science whiz Jake (Nick Robinson), whose sudden infatuation with the school's popularity queen, Julianne (Stefanie Scott), edges out his best furry friend, who retaliates as only a dog can do. Jake's tomboyish classmate Savannah (Mary Mouser) gets her own dose of trouble when she switches places with her well-to-do look-alike, Emma (Mouser again), and the girls start shaking things up with each other's love interests. And BFFs Halley (Zendaya) and Avalon (Bella Thorne) put their relationship on the line to land a coveted editorial position with a publishing company that wants to take their website, Geekly Chic, to the big time. Ultimately each character must weigh friendship against his or her other desires and decide what matters most.

Is it any good?

Based on a novel by Alexa Young, Frenemies sets out to explore the complicated world of on-again, off-again teen relationships and to illustrate why friendship should top the value list. Does it accomplish this goal? Yes, but the movie's worthwhile messages about social priorities and individuality come courtesy of sanitized characters and an unrealistic plot. These teens aren't coping with relatable academic pressures, complex relationships, or worries about their future. Instead, 14-year-olds are spending time at school plotting to land a dream job in the grown-up world, flubbing their way through someone else's fencing lessons while playing the role of a look-alike pal, and trying to reason with a pouting pet. Sound familiar? Probably not, and it's a good bet your tweens will find it a little far-fetched as well.

That's not to say Frenemies doesn't have merit. Kids can't possibly reach the movie's end without gleaning some positive lessons about relating to others, but the story's glamorous presentation of teen life -- where even the "geeks" are gorgeous and cutting school for a big-time job interview bears no consequences -- won't ring true with seasoned tweens. In fact, the movie's bound to be best received among the  younger tween set thanks to its fresh-faced, familiar stars, all of whom are veterans of series from Disney and its network partners. The bottom line? The content is fine for grade-schoolers, and your kids are sure to enjoy seeing some of their favorite stars take on new roles and team up for a fun musical number at the movie's end, but it's worth following up with a reality check to make sure kids know the difference between real life and the movies.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about friendship. How do your relationships with your friends compare to those among the characters? Have you ever encountered problems similar to theirs? How do you work through your disagreements?

  • Tweens: What does it mean to be popular? How is popularity determined? What role does it play among your peers? Are you conscious of your own "status"? Is it something that concerns you? In what ways can the Internet be used to influence popularity?

  • If your tweens have read the book that inspired Frenemies, you can talk about how the two compare. What changes were made for the movie? Was anything lost in the move to the screen? What, if anything, was improved over the book?

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