TV review by
Marty Brown, Common Sense Media
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Parents recommend
Cliche-free British crime drama is great grown-up mystery.

Parents say

age 15+
Based on 5 reviews

Kids say

age 14+
Based on 5 reviews

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The parents' guide to what's in this TV show.

Positive Messages

There's an aspect of the show that's about grief and moving on from major loss, but it's mostly a modern hard-boiled mystery, where characters' dark sides are slowly revealed.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Sophie is the least flawed character, and the friendship between Tom and Pete is special, but this is mostly a show about unethical people who have trouble with interpersonal relationships.


The show centers around a murder and the disappearance of a young girl, but on-screen violence is used sparingly. There are fistfights, someone gets stabbed, and there's multiple shots of a deteriorating corpse. Toward the end, there are a couple of graphic on-screen deaths.


Sex is often implied but never actually depicted. One of the storylines involves nude pictures of a woman.


Language is mild, mostly limited to implied cursing, like "milf."

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

The central event of the show is a party where teenagers drink excessively and do drugs. Many characters smoke, many scenes take place in bars, and at least one character is a drug dealer.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Safe is a British mystery show about tangled relationships and missing people. A whodunit that takes place in a gated community, the show features characters who are all tough and stoic until the story chips away at their troubled pasts. Despite its dark subject matter, Safe is surprisingly restrained in its depictions of sex and violence, though there are some graphic and bloody on-screen deaths near the end of the series. The inciting event takes place at a party where kids are drinking and doing drugs, and the few visible moments of violence (especially a stabbing that takes place halfway through) are impactful. For mature teens who love mysteries, this is a by-the-book but really well-done story. 

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent Written byMeganolia July 1, 2018

All good (2 things stood out)

They show graphics of naked woman.. and one F word stood out and the MILF used. Great great attention keeper! A lot of drinking and drugs. Entitlement all ov... Continue reading
Adult Written byJonathan B. May 23, 2018
Teen, 14 years old Written byMskssnbd June 15, 2018

Don’t listen to the common sense review!

This is a very good show and I highly recommend watching, however the common sense review says there is no language but there is frequent swearing.
Kid, 10 years old February 9, 2021


This is such a good series, but it’s not for 11 year olds I should not have watched it, but I like watching 15s and 18s, so, but anyway, ONE OF THE BEST SERIES... Continue reading

What's the story?

In SAFE, Tom Delaney (Michael C. Hall), a surgeon living in a gated community, is trying to hold his family together after the death of his wife. He's also having a secret romance with Sophie (Amanda Abbington), a local detective. When Tom's older daughter, Jenny, doesn't come home one night, he enlists his best friend and fellow doctor, Pete (Marc Warren), to help find her. At the same time, Sophie and her new partner (Hannah Arterton) are investigating accusations that high school teacher Zoe Chahal (Audrey Fleurot) is sleeping with one of her students. Zoe is also the mother of Jenny's boyfriend, Chris, who is also missing. As Tom and Sophie conduct their separate investigations, it becomes clear that the mysteries might be intertwined.

Is it any good?

For a show that's content to stay within its genre, this does a lot of subtle things extremely well, and always moves fast enough to stay one step ahead of the audience. When a question gets raised (a character caught in a lie, for example), Safe will address it quickly, only for many other questions to bloom from the answer. It also uses a lot of dramatic irony to great effect. We know what happens to a certain character early on, but then get to watch as the other characters find out one-by-one, and their responses fuel the mystery.

Living somewhere between Agatha Christie and Raymond Chandler, Safe's characters are also strongly realized. Like a good noir, characters seem tough on the surface, but contain hidden depths that come out as their secrets are revealed. More importantly, the show does an incredible job of avoiding cliches and obvious plot turns. The two main police detectives are women, which is a rare thing itself, but that doesn't factor into the plot at all. One of the main characters is gay and, similarly, his sexuality doesn't factor into the plot or become a topic of conversation -- it just is. And more subtly, there are a handful of adult relationships that could easily be depicted as abusive, but turn out to be much more complex, and Safe finds unique ways of depicting unhealthy communication between couples. These are subtle but crucial things that allow Safe to focus on the actual story at the heart of the show. The result: one of the best TV crime dramas of the past decade.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about coping with loss. When we meet Tom Delaney (Michael C. Hall) in Safe, he and his daughters are mourning the death of his wife. How does this affect their relationships with one another? How successful are they at helping each other heal? What could they do better?

  • Families can talk about healthy partnerships. Many (if not all) of the adult couples in Safe have some sort of strain on their relationship. How do each of the couples in Safe treat one another? How do they talk to each other, and how does that affect their relationship? What are the habits that are healthy? Unhealthy?

  • Families can try to solve the mystery! One of the strengths of Safe is that it presents a compelling and intriguing murder mystery -- something that is more rare than you might think, given the amount of crime shows on television. Families can talk through the events, unravel the different story threads, and try to predict what is going to happen.

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